Very good question. Here is a list of several things you can do to get him to stop asking for anal sex:
1) Stop giving it to him. I'm assuming that he's asking all the time because you've already provided it. Don't cave in.
2) Eat something which will cause your bowel movements to become very loose. Offer it to him and you'll note that he will probably never ask for it again.
3) Start doing number 2s with the bathroom door wide open.
4) If you are shy about doing the above. Don't leave the door open, but when your done make sure not to flush. One time will not dissuade him, but after several times this will really start to gross him out.
5) Tell him that you will only give him anal if he allows you to give the same to him with whatever phallic device is necessary.
For a good 99% of dudes the above list will make the begging stop. If he's in the 1% minority, your problems are much bigger than just this question.
How about the direct route and simply be honest and say you don't like it? It's your body remember?
It kind of sounds like you're afraid to lose him if you put your foot down. Could be totally wrong but it's just a hunch.
My boyfriend and I are both open about what we want in bed and if yours loves you, he wouldn't want to do or say anything that would make you feel uncomfortable. I'd just tell him that is not your thing but you like to enjoy other things and give him a list. Tell him you can still spice things up sans the anal.
Yeah, I agree with the ladies above. MM your advice is not very useful and annoyingly stupid.
This guy is your boyfriend. Talk to him. If he loves you why would he want to do something to your body that you don't like or is painful or humiliating. If he can't understand it in those terms, you need to lose him--fast!
Just say it's over and then he will come running back to you
Ask him if he wouldn't mind if you stuck a virbrator up his canal too. If that doesnt work and he continues even though he knows its not something u are into or that makes you uncomfortable, I'd ask him why disregards your feelings. Sex should be fun and open and honest but only when the 2 agree.
I answered the same question a few weeks back. Must be a lot of guys out there pushing for anal.
In MM's defense, he was being funny. Cut a guy some slack, CoCo.
just crap on his bed, and then say you're ready. that should turn anyone off. or, it might turn him on more. either way, you'll know what's up.
MM, you are hilarious. The advice I would actually try if I were in a relationship with someone with a sense of humor like that. It's strange that it wasn't obvious to the person who asked the question that they should probably just be honest about the problem. Although I'm not sure if any of you folks discussed the approach at length. In my relationships at least since I'm more of the passive type, I find that the girls are quick to make strict demands about everything, putting their foot down as you guys say, on absolutely every issue. This gets really tiring, really fast, and doesn't leave the guy with any self respect. My point is that this doesn't seem like a huge issue, it's just something annoying so don't give the problem more significance than it deserves. Tell the guy you don't appreciate the incessant begging and if he's insensitive about it, well that's a whole different reason to be upset, and should probably be its own question.
Wrong Wrong Wrong......... Give him the anal if he makes more money and is there for you and take it.... Show him you want his seed in your ass.. He will tire of it and go back to regular..... It's like getting a bad BJ, most guys will ask them to quit, i refuse..... I feel they need to get better at it so i say " i'm almost there!!!! DONT STOP!!!" and then if they say just tell me when you're going to come, you just act like you arent going to and do it grabbing their head, and dont stop holding her there until you're done and profess that thats never happened before and that it was amazing and say you're sorry....
Oh my god that is friggin funny!