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How do I go about dating somone out of my race and where do I find them in NY.I'm black/indian and am tired of guys from my bracket of society (my father/grandfathers suck to say the least true manwhores at best) and would like to date different people but I'm not sure how a white, asian etc. kind of guy will react.^^

First, let's not assume we can know the fidelity of all people based on their ethnicity. There's enough cheating, lying pr*cks of all cultures / skin tones to go around. But, if you're feeling particularly down about your "bracket" as you call it (aren't brackets more of a college basketball thing?) then no worries, you're in no better town to explore other dating options. (*Also, dont forget your lovely dating site options.)

New York is the diversity capital of the world. This isn't to say every block is a rainbow of skin colors and ethnicities, but for those seeking a rich dating spectrum, New York -- with some effort -- can easily meet your needs.

Areas like the East Village, West Village, Chelsea, and the Lower East side are full of clubs and restaurants with diversity. In Brooklyn places like Fort Greene, Clinton Hill and to an extent Williamsburg are rich in diversity.

If you want to specifically meet white guys, talk to white guys. If you want to meet Asian dudes, kick it to an Asian dude. Here's a little Guy(speak) secret: Men love being approached by women. All men. Here's anther one: there are tons and tons of men who would love to date women of different ethnicities, but feel they're "out of their league" or, as you say "out of their bracket." But again, about brackets: that term sucks and should be removed from your emotional lexicon - it implies a hierarchy and status. Think of it more as a spectrum left to right not top to bottom. There's a huge difference. Once you operate with a feeling that you are dating from left to right and not on a ladder, diverse dating will be infinitely easier. And, more enjoyable.

Good luck. Let us know how it goes, Miss Black/Indian NYC.

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Hey VivT, I also live in NYC and I'm mixed. The best way to meet guys out of your "dating bracket" is to have friends out of your dating bracket. Go out with them to places you don't normally go, and head to neighborhoods that epitomizes the type of guy you're looking for.

You will meet some guys who aren't interested in dating outside of their ethnicity, and you'll know that immediately. But most guys in NY are very open to interracial relationships and find it really cool/ a turn on that you have a diff background than them. And Funny Guy is right, guys love when you approach them. Good luck!

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Well dont approach them, make them approach you with that loook girl! The look that says "Im interested. Come and get me." And if he doesnt come over, whatever ethnicity he is, then he has NO balls and is not the one for you.

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