This is probably one of the most popular questions asked in any forum, so let me take my crack at helping to illuminate a couple of ways you’ll know if a guy wants more than just sex from you:
1) He talks to you about things that do not involve what time you’re showing up to his home.
If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t initiate a convo with you about Lost or Grey’s Anatomy and what the heck happened to George? You know why, because if only wants sex, he doesn’t respect your mind. Even if you tell him 2+2 is 4, he’d still look it up because, like I said, he doesn’t respect your mind.
2) He goes places with you in public
Nothing says I might want more than going out in public during the day, to like a zoo or something. If all I want is sex, I’m not scheduling dates, or basically anything before 7pm, to include the movies. NIne o’clock movies are ideal because afterwards he can suggest that you go back to your place to chill out which really means, “I’d like to see you naked and I just saw a movie with you, I deserve something.” Day dates mean he’s okay with other people seeing you with him which means he just might want more than sex.
3) He lets you come to his place when you feel like it
If you’re truly a player out for only sex, you go to her place all the time? And do you know why? It’s because you can control when you leave. She’s not leaving her place so you get to leave. What else is she going to do? And if she puts you out? Great, you can just go home. If we bring you to our homes, you can find a reason to stay. It is not ideal. If I only want sex, you don’t come to my place.
4) He calls you for simple pleasantries
Any time a guy just calls to say, “hey, I was thinking about you” he wants more than just sex. Mostly because we do not like all the strings that come along with sex, such as simple pleasantries. If we do them, of our own volition, we want to see you mentally naked too. Which bodes well for you.
All of these come down to time. If the guy is making time for you outside of sexxy time, then he wants more than sex. If you don’t get any time outside of schlumping time, sorry to tellyou, but you’re a pin cushion.
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