I'm not so sure. Have we dated?
Oh oh oh, you mean in general how does one suck d*ck. Having been the recipient of d*ck sucks, I can offer some opinion on the matter.
Most women suck d*ck exactly how their last boyfriend liked his d*ck to be sucked. Read that again, until you understand it. Just as it takes a couple some time to format their kissing style or a man to learn his lady's oral likes and dislikes, so too a woman usually performs oral on her new man with the skill set and likes of her last man.
Because of this there is a learning curve when it comes to this stuff. What worked for John might not work for Dick. Just cause Harry liked it, doesn't mean Rod will. Having said that, there are some basics and guidelines to get you started.
1. Consistency, the wang responds well to rhythm and steadiness. Don't change it up every 7 seconds. Find a groove and... groove.
2. Most men enjoy depth, if it is doable. The more you take in the better. It's just basic science. Your mouth is warm and feels good. The more that gets in there, the better.
3. The wang head is its own department, more sensitive and so on. That means extra attention and precaution should be taken.
4. The balls aren't just decoration. Often including them in the fiesta makes for a bigger party. This doesn't mean blowing them per se, but general touching, light massaging and inter-play will yield great dividends.
5. As the man is close to climaxing, it is important not to change things up. The mind and body are locked and poised for orgasm; it's akin to not changing the channel at the most important scene of a movie. The results can be catastrophic and angering. "What are you doing? Go back, go back!! He was about to explode!!"
6. Ask him, what HE likes.
7. Lastly, effort and comfort level. Don't do any of these things if you don't feel comfortable doing it. For your sake primarily, but for his sake as well. There's nothing worse than receiving a nervous or guilt ridden BJ. Conversely, if you've squared all that away, and are ready for your close up, go at it; there is also nothing sexier than receiving a committed and mutually pleasurable BJ.
Love the "How To" Guide, AW. ;)
Right on.
Dear Asker:
I've been told many times that my skills are exceptional with this..(I'm not sleezy, just been on this planet a long time) and though I never advertised my expertise with said guy(s), I've found that being good at giving is partly due to really really enjoying it. As someone who LOVES doing this, part of the turn on for the guy is knowing how much his girl desires him.
If you don't like it, he can tell.
Frankly, I gotta say that I've also picked up some additional skills watching porn. Your guy may or may not like the double hand action, or swirling action, or 780 double twist mc-fly (ok, I made that up) but seriously if you are a confident sexy partner, his response will be that much more intense.
:)
Geez, GoodKarmaGirl, I want you to suck MY d*ck.....and I don't even have one. lol
I normally eat duck, as opposed to on sucking it.
HaHaHa! ;)
"The balls aren't just decoration." ~ priceless!
I can't stress how important #6 is. Communication is vital! Yes, do ask him what he likes, but also be honest with him about your comfort zone. Due to a former abusive situation, I have some "limitations" about giving a bj. So, in subsequent situations I've just been open and honest about them. Happily, I have never been turn down and have even been complimented on what it is I can do. Good luck!