Well, if he's been close to after you've smoked, chances are the cat's already out of the bag on that one. Smoke tends to linger on your clothes, hair, breathe, etc. He probably already knows that you smoke and either a) doesn't care or b) is concerned, but thinks it's your decision or c) doesn't like it, but likes you enough to live with it.
So, the best thing to do is come clean. Just say, "Hey, so as you probably already noticed, I smoke sometimes. Just wanted to let you know. Is this something you're cool with?" Let him know how often you smoke. Are you a pack-a-day person, or more of a social smoker who takes a trip to "flavor country" when she's out drinking with friends? Is this a habit, or a occasional vice? Do you want to quit? If so, let him know. Maybe he could help you quit.
Again, chances are he knows or at least suspects. So just ask his opinion on it. If he's adamantly against it, or allergic, you'd probably know already. Chances are he doesn't care, or he's concerned but doesn't want to tell you what to do. So the best thing to do is just bring it up casually and see how he reacts. Because, again, it's kind of a hard habit to hide.
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