First off, look on the bright side. This is an easier task than telling your boyfriend of 2 months, that you're 3 months pregnant. Still, I am not naïve to the reality that sharing the fact that you and your new mate have created a human is a big deal.
The best way to tell him is in simple terms. Give him the facts. He may or may not flip the F out. Maybe he will be psyched and loving from the start. Maybe he'll flip out for a week and then say, "Ok, not ideal, but let's figure this out together."
I think what's key is to take some time before this talk to get the strongest personal handle on the sitch.
You need to do some mental/emotional/logistical/spiritual homework, because essentially you will not only be telling him "We're pregnant" but also, "Now that we're pregnant..."
Buy a bucket of your favorite ice cream and think long and hard about your dot dot dots.
Some sample dot dot dots you may want to meditate on:
Are you going to have this baby?
How well do you know/like this guy?
Are you going to have this baby as a couple?
How are your finances?
How's your support network?
Finally, I'd suggest telling your boyfriend sooner than later; this is life changing stuff we're dealing with, and getting him in on the ground level will work best. You don't want to tell your boyfriend of 5 months that you're 5 months pregnant. Or your ex-boyfriend of 15 months, that he has an 8 month old.
I've been in a similar situation before.
Amit is right, give him the simple point blank facts. If you had other sexual encounters before your bf where it's possible there could be a different guy's, find out for sure.
Also, remember that there is another person involved, the baby.
Think carefully and have no regrets.
Bonne Chance.
Ok first of all not to be mean but why the hell weren't you on some sort of birth control!!! I don't think its fair to the baby or you or him for you to have let yourself get pregnant so soon in a relationship where u might not have even said I love you yet. Im not saying ur man shouldn't get a tongue lashing for not making sure u were taking steps to prevent pregnancy as well but we girls know its usually up to us to protect ourselves. My friend was just in that situation and it turned out terribly, he's with her bc of the baby, they fight constantly, just all around awful so if u keep the baby and he isn't on board with the idea then u need to move on before the baby is old enough to see you two fighting ect. And im speaking from experiance on the pregnancy thing bc I got pregnant in high school and I didn't keep it. But from that day on I have been the most careful person to not get pregnant, so I have to say yet again whatever ur choice please learn from this and get ur act together and don't let another unplanned pregnancy happen again bc its really selfish and unfair bc ur not the only one impacted by that so grow the f up!
You know that no method of birth control is totally effective, right? They very well could have been using some form of contraceptive.
You're a moron.
Why assume it's his? I doubt they were exclusive two months ago...
Hi my name is Tasha and I think I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that I only been with 2months and yes we did use condoms I'm not so sure I want a baby yet and he has two kids the baby mother is a bitch he going through hell with her I don't know if he going to be thrill with me being pregnant WAT SHOULD I FOO