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How do I tell the guy I've been dating (a little over 2 months) that I want us to have sex more often? Right now, we see each other about 1-2 times a week, and we don't have sex EVERY time we see each other. I would just like that number to increase, but I'm not sure how to bring it up.

You don't have to say anything at all. Whenever you want it, just grab the guy and show him in in a physical way what you want, i.e. pull of his clothes. The whole conversation thing will lead to nothing but awkwardness and is not a recommended first step.

If you do what I suggest and he begins to reject your advances, then you may have a problem for a variety of reasons: He may a) be losing interest in you; b) be having sex with someone else; c) be exhausted from work; or d) have a low sex drive. If it's a or b you are in trouble, but c and d can be dealt with.

Give him a shove and see what happens.

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6 Comments

Mannon

Absolutely. Talking about it makes it seem like a problem, and puts him on the back foot from the start. Far better to just show him. Seriously, if you want sex from your guy, put the moves on him. Never underestimate the power of your womanly wiles.

VKnoxville

Oh, Mannon -swoons-

Laje Kahr

I agree wholeheartedly.
Men: Romance that leads to sex = woman getting naked or getting us naked.
Women: Romance that leads to sex = oh boy, books have been written! Minds pondered, females studied! Mountains moved, ships set sail! Sonnets and plays written! Songs sung!

You complicated, us simple well for romance that leads to sex that is. Flip it over to being loved and understood and both sexes are crazy complicated. :)

BobLaMerde

As one who prefers the company of young ladies for their abundant libido, I must admit becoming agog at this poster's question.

I admire such a nymph who is able to cast aside the shackles of purity for want of wanton desires. Surely, I must agree with your chosen magistrate!

The gentleman you speak of has been neutered by any number of psychological demons, inferring any number of possible paranoid neuroses. While I would offer my card for further discussion, the ethical implications are telling.

As the honourable Mysteryman has directed in his judgement, you should waste no time in offering this gentleman oral delivery. Godspeed, Madam, and my consolation in advance should this man sex be pointed towards his own gender.

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hahha I agree

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