I think that 9 out of 10 dentists would tell you that if man has sex, he enjoys sex. Now, its not to say that all sex is good - quite the contrary, actually - but most men are just happy to be boinking somebody that we're generally not going to NOT enjoy it.
Now some guys are just quiet after some lovin'. I know I don't feel like having a really emo conversation about what just went down. Other guys are very vocal about the lovin'. They want to talk about all the things you did good. Kind of the same way that a lot of women are after boinkage.
One way to tell if a guy didn't enjoy sex is if he intentionally doesn't speak to you afterwards or makes a bunch of very vague references to bad boning. Or says things like, "wow. that was different."
I think you can probably rest assured that your guy enjoyed your special place. The only time to worry is if dude says something jacked up or never calls you again. And even the latter just means he only wanted the love box, not that he didn't enjoy it.
Just do you...errr, him, and make it rain. Anything less is uncivilized.
I don't mind a bit of pillow talk, but I know there's plenty of guys who like to just quietly bask in the afterglow. You could try asking him if he enjoyed himself, but if that's to forward here's a handy hint: if a guy wants to have sex with you again, you can safely assume he enjoyed it the first time around.
Thank you! I had sex with my boyfriend last night and afterwards he said "was that as good for you as it was for me?" and no one has ever said anything like that to me before but I enjoyed it immensely. So was his comment a good thing?? Please get back to me asap, I think I'm gonna be at his place tonight again. idk.
When I finish making love to my guy he always say your the best I ever had