This one is really easy. Act like you don't like him for long enough for him to fall head over heels in love with you. Reject him. Ignore him. Give him nothing and he'll demand your love. Dudes hate rejection more than anything else. Though if he hasn't noticed you at all, it may get a bit trickier. You will then have rub his knee or brush your boobs against his arm. If he's heterosexual, either should work. Once you have succeeded at getting his attention, begin to reject him. Games like this aren't pleasant and they take a steady nerve, but they pay off.
Mystery Man
It's sad because it's true.
NOOO. Really? THAT easy?
really man i wish that it was easyier than that. my friend says this guy i like likes me but i dont think so how do i find out?
it seems like that wouldnt work becuz sum guyz might give up
Well, there are lots of signs that men give to indicate interest. The key thing to ask is, does he treat you differently than everyone else? No matter how blatant or subtle we are, when our interest is sparked we can't act neutral. We either start leaning towards the "boom box over our heads, blasting Peter Gabriel", or "pulling pigtails" instincts.
So, does this guy seem to forgoe other conversations, so that he can hear what you have to say? When you walk into the room, does he seem to give you a single "what's up?" and then go back to talking to his friends, but with everyone else he will include them immediately in the conversation? Either of these could be signs. Of course, another explaination for the first question is that he thinks of you as a bud who is fun to talk to. And for the second, he may just dislike you.
That's the main problem with all these signs. For each sign, there is a reasonable explaination where he is not interested. Which is pretty much the same stuff guys go through as well. And, much like with us guys, there is only one sure fire way of answering the question. Ask the person out on a date.
he know that he like ,me
What if he is a shy guy and might be discourage by your seeming lack of interest?
weathergirl that is my question exactly! I have met a guy through a mutal friend of ours and she keeps telling me that he keeps asking about me and so on, but he's too shy to get in touch with me! What gives? The first two times that I met him he ignored me, then he sat on purpose next to me and started talking to me for the whole evening and now he's "too nervous to get in touch with me" according to my friend.
This is a bunch of crappy advice! Seriously? Ignore them? It's childplay! I was talking to this guy for 2 days. Flirty texts, lots of emails and fun... and then he texted me goodnight and I never responded back, trying to seem unavailable.... HE HAS NOT RESPONDED AT ALL! It's been almost 5 days now and I've given up. I wasn't that interested to begin with! :)
Anyway, for the "adult" world, there's no reason on EARTH that should prevent a woman from telling a mane xactly how she feels. These avoidance games are just that--GAMES. Love is not a game, it's real and so are our emotions. You see all these men out there saying "I'm done with games I hate games don't play games with me I'm not into that" bullshit! Well, then when I tell you the truth take it like a man and don't go running for the hills! You ASKED for it! I don't play games, they're a waste of my time and energy.
Don't be bitter. The subject of the topic wasn't 'How do I get a guy to love me?' it has nothing to do with love. Dating has to come first, otherwise it will not be a healthy relationship to begin with. Reign in your horses, dear. The game is played for a reason. Maybe you need to relearn the rules.
Well, I think that the problem is that you used the "seem unavailble" trick too late.
Seeming unavailable only works if you have not yet made yourself available. But, you had made yourself available. You had a conversation going, and you made yourself very available for it. Then, when you made yourself unavailable, the guy probably assumed you were no longer interested (I am guessing he was a bit bewlidered too).
One of the key things to remember is that you can't really go backwards in a relationship without consequence. If a woman gives a man a key to her apartment, and then the next days asks for it back, the guy reads that as a bad thing. If a woman has been really great at responding to texts quickly, and then stops, that is also read as a bad thing. Now, if the relationship is established, the guy can question the backward motion. But, at the start, like what you had, the guy can't question the backward motion, he can only walk away (or else seem creepy).
Relationship games are a lot like a defribilator. When used at the right time, they can bring a relationship to life. When used when the relationship is already alive, they can kill a relationship.
thats what i am gonna do to my current bf right now..... oooo thnx....
im doing this with the guy in my class, we both liked each other... we even kissed but then drama started btwn us. so now i ignore him in class and he does the same! i have a feeling it bugs him but he doesnt show it, so it hasnt quite worked yet, but i still have faith that this trick does work lol! i guess i have to be patient or move on or move on and then he'll come running back... but ladies, 9 out of 10 times if u ignore a guy he'll come running... i think this guy is just too stubborn, and middle eastern the game is a little diff with those kind of guys haha.
is that why my bf is so in love with me, because when he asks if i love him i tell him no.
Well if your a mature woman you don't Force/Trick a guy into liking you. If your interested in him just keep it real, Trust me. Alot of ppl will tell you otherwise But keep it real. Be yourself that way you'll know if he really likes you or you guys could possibly have a future together. Never go out of your way for a guys attention, If they want you they'll make it clear. If not too bad!