Ask nicely. Don't hold her head down unless you never want her to go down on you again and/or go all "America's Funniest Home Videos" on you and smack you square in the nuts.
Also, I sure hope you're reciprocating in the oral department. And be aware that some women do not swallow. Those that don't are usually pretty up front about it. If she's not into it, be sure to give her a (Arr! Thar be a pun ahead, matey!) "heads" up when you're about to, uh, reach fruition.
Remember: women liked to be asked. It's the polite thing to do. Maybe she's into it, maybe she's not, or maybe she's willing to give it a try. But you won't know unless you ask. You get more flies with honey, and you get more BJs by not being a jerkface who holds down her head and refuses to go down on her because his neck cramps up.
Also, I sure hope you're reciprocating in the oral department. And be aware that some women do not swallow. Those that don't are usually pretty up front about it. If she's not into it, be sure to give her a (Arr! Thar be a pun ahead, matey!) "heads" up when you're about to, uh, reach fruition.
Remember: women liked to be asked. It's the polite thing to do. Maybe she's into it, maybe she's not, or maybe she's willing to give it a try. But you won't know unless you ask. You get more flies with honey, and you get more BJs by not being a jerkface who holds down her head and refuses to go down on her because his neck cramps up.
A good compromise is the squeeze trick. One of you squeezes at the bottom on the underneath side & nothing comes out until you let go. But yeah, some do & some don't & some are reformed swallowers, such as myself!
A good compromise the squeeze trick. One of you squeezes (doesn't have to be hard) at the base on the underneath side & nothing comes out until you let go. But yeah, some do & some don't, and others are reformed swallowers, such as myself!
How about you swallow a load first to show her how its done?
HAHAHHA. EPIC.
seriously. then he might understand why it's a knee jerk reaction to spit that stuff out of your mouth....excellent idea, audra!
Thanks way too funny!
Absolutely. I love doing it, but that's because for the first time in a very long time I'm actually with someone who takes care of their body and as such their man stuff doesn't taste half bad ^_^ A good tip is to get him to wank earlier in the day so it's a lot more fluid later. You never EVER want it to be chunky. (This isn't with the current guy, but a past one)
If he's willing to go veggie, then maybe it would be better for those partners that don't like it. Or, as was said, if he'll go down on you. He should never bully you or expect you to do it for him, and if he's willing to make no effort to make the experience better then I'm not sure why you should bother. That said, I'm not sure why you'd bother being with someone like that in the first place.
Also, I think every guy should taste their own at some point, and certainly if they expect/want swallowing every time.
You are what you eat.., literally. Some guys don’t get that. Seriously, the sweeter you eat, the sweeter your meat. If you’re a partying, drinker type, YACK! Who wants that crap? Have you ever given that much thought? Humm…
How do you get a guy to quit thinking of himself so much?!?
I really don't get women who are so disgusted by swallowing. If he's giving you oral, really, he's licking all of your fluids up and tasting you. Turnabout is fair play. And quite frankly, it turns him on which turns me on.
As a man I'm flooded with my wife's juices every time I "go down" on her. It's much more than the 15 ml the average man shoots out but I swallow it many times during the 15-18 minutes it takes for her to achieve orgasm. I do ir because I love her. BTW, I tasted my own.