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How do you interpret "Love ya" in a fairly new relationship. Is that hard to say "Love you", or is he just not feeling it?

"Love ya" is one of those feeling out statements that people use when they're perhaps feeling a certain way but they're not ready to say "I love you" but they want you to know tha they "love ya". It's more to feel you out than it is that he's not feeling it.

For instance, have you ever met somebody and instead of exchanging phone numbers you exchange email addresses? Well what normally happens is that you commence to emailing and all of them are signed with the person's name. But the end of the day nears and for some odd reason, one person signs their name but a phone number miraculously appears?

It's like, holy sh*t, what do I do with that? Did they do that intentionally (they did) and does that mean they want me to call (it does)? Except since nobody explicitly said anything, both parties can play the ignorant card.

So basically, it's a feeling out process. And an attempt to let you know that he is thinking of you in such a way where he feels a need to say something, but he's possibly not sure how "i love you" would come across or if it would scare you off. Women do this ALL the time.

Oh, and yes, it is THAT HARD to say "I love you". Nobody likes being rejected and we've all seen enough romantic comedies to know that rejection does indeed happen. So we hedge our bets and proceed with caution. Vulnerability is a difficult obstacle to overcome. We've all been burned before (no STD) so give it time and let the relationship get more comfortable. Pretty soon you'll get more "I love you's" than you can handle. At least until you get married and they stop altogether. Or at least that's what I hear.

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Caitlin

What if you've been in a relationship for 3 years and he hasn't said the 'L' word?? He says that he can't say it until he knows that he's ready to marry me... and he shows it in a million other ways... sometimes, words are just nicer. More clean-cut.

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Caitlin was in the same exact situation as you with my ex-boyfriend that I was with for a year and a half and I told him I loved him but I had to let him go because he wasn't showing me that he cared about and said that he wasn't going to say I love you until he knows thats he's ready to get marry so I took it has my ex boyfriend didnt see a future with me and never wanted to make our relationship more complex by dropping the L bomb maybe he doesnt see a future with you I hope that helps

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I want to publicly thank Panama Jackson for his spot on advice. (I asked this question). You were absolutely right! I am getting more "I Love You's" than I can handle. (Well, ok, I can handle them, in fact I love hearing it). He also talks frequently about our lifelong future together. Once again, thank you so much for not only answering my question, but for your wisdom. :)

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