Well, I don't think flirting and looking at other women constitutes cheating, but if you are looking to catch him at really cheating the best way would be to figure out the credentials to his email accounts, as he's probably emailing her. Note: This is a total invasion of privacy and ethically wrong, as well as potentially illegal, but it can catch him in the act. The other thing you can do is physically inspect him when he comes home. If he's cheating he's bound to have some physical indication such as a perfume odor on his body.
With that all said, if you think your husband is cheating on you and you are not psychotic (which you may be), he is probably either getting ready to cheat or there are enough problems in your marriage that you should probably seek a couple's therapist.
Good luck!
If you have a strong enough relationship you can each look at men and women and comment. It is about trust. Everyone looks, you just have to trust each other enough to know that you and he wont do anything.
My fiancee and I look at men and women and comment about them to each other all the time.
It all jut comes down to trust.
If you have a strong enough relationship you can each look at men and women and comment. It is about trust. Everyone looks, you just have to trust each other enough to know that you and he wont do anything.
My fiancee and I look at men and women and comment about them to each other all the time.
It all jut comes down to trust.
I don't have any tips on how to catch a cheater, but my advice would be to trust him until he gives you a reason not to- in other words, don't assume he's a cheater, because you'll just make yourself crazy. Relationships should be built on trust, so trust him.
This is the kind of woman I NEVER want to turn into. Are you so desparate, clingy and insecure that you going to spend all of your time worrying about what he's doing? It sounds like you need to worry about what YOU're doing and get a life!!!! Someone who is THAT hyper-focused on alleging "cheating" almost guarantees it for themselves with that kind of behavior/thought process. And no one wants to be with someone like that, (paranoid, accusatory, suspicious, mentally off) including your husband.