You fight all the time. You're getting tired. You're starting to resent him. You can't imagine a future with him. You are in a relationship that isn't good for you and it isn't good for him.
If you truly care about him, and you want to take care of yourself, you need to end this relationship. You're only staying in it because you think you're saving him from pain. But every frustrated sigh, every fight, and every night going to bed angry causes him pain.
You can't see this because you don't have any perspective on the situation. You've been in a relationship for a year and a half and that relationship has slowly but surely turned bad. You haven't noticed the little steps towards bad, but now you're there. And you need to end it.
The only way to stop the pain that both of you are feeling is to break up with him. It may seem impossible right now. But you need to have the awful conversation. It will hurt, but it will heal you both.
Ladies, any advice on how to end a bad relationship?
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I'm kind of in the same situation. I don't resent him but we argue from time to time because I've found things that aren't terrible but they hurt. He just doesn't know it and its hard to keep in. If you're constantly arguing, I would confront him about it because he's obviously noticing you guys argue too much I'm sure. See if you can either fix it if you both still love each other. Otherwise end it if you've tried everything and there's no more hope.
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Maybe tell him, "This isn't working & I think we both know it. If it was we wouldn't be fighting over stupid stuff."
Pause, let him reply & listen. If he wants to work on it..., ask him to come up with a plan to resolve the situation as it is. If it's not something you're willing to do, let him know that. Tell him you don't mean to hurt him but it's you feel you just want to break up..., & do it.
It's your choice..., in the end you can spare his feelings or yours.
idk...., anyone else have a good idea?
(I wish there was an edit button for my cluster-fudge sentence, lol.)
Haha no it was understandable. I think you're absolutely right. It's easier said than done but that seems like a pretty simple plan and she should go with that.
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