You don't. You get over it and move on.
Life is far too short to waste your time and emotional energy trying to prove to someone that they were wrong to let you get away. We all get rejected in life, and we can't dwell on it. That time and energy is better spent moving forward, living your live and finding someone else. If this guy sees you happy and in love with another man, then he'll probably realize that you were a catch that he should've caught. Like they say, living well is the best revenge.
On the other hand, he might have had a good reason not to get with you. Maybe he just wasn't into you. Maybe he knew you were not right for each other. Maybe he's in love with someone else. Does that make him a bad guy who needs to be taught a lesson? Nope. He made his choice for whatever reason, and that's his right.
You need to let it go and focus on the future, not the past. It's over. Move on.
If it concerns you that he doesnt know what he's missing only says you feel like you regret him not getn you when he had the chance.Me & my girlies have a saying & its not for everyone but its always worked for us & its "It takes a dude to get over a dude!".Even if he's not a guy you plan to create a future with he could be a great time filler!We fondly call him "the transition man".& before you know it you'll be looking around going "stupid guy that missed out who??".
I agree with Cary. It's time to let it go and move on. Understandably, you are feeling hurt and rejected, but you can get past that.
If you really truly cared for him, you would want him to be happy. You wouldn't take delight in and be seeking out ways to cause him misery. And if you don't really care for him, you don't want to be with him anyway.
Great answer Cary!
Love yourself, first...You are what matters, not him, its not worth your time. It sucks, but your not the first to feel that way, you wont be the last..Take comfort in that. And PRIDE...Self pride...God damn it we dont have enough of that. I would sooner be slapped in the face then let someone think they got the best out of me..
You do nothing.. silence speaks volumes ! After dumping my boyfriend of 10 years that didn't want to commit.. a year later he is calling and messaging for me back ! and I did ..NOTHING. Let him wonder what I'm up to and that I no longer need him. He had his chance. Don't feed his ego by contacting him. It also helps to have Hot pictures of you on your Facebook !
How can you move on? If he doesn't regret it, you might never have a chance with him again. He'll be the one to move on. He will just grab a girl and go sexin. You need to dress sexy (show off your boobs and shit). After that, he'll crave you. You'll be sexin him all night.
You could also compose and sing a pop song (yes, Leona Lewis, I am looking at you) and become a pop sensation?
That should get him.
Or just move on. Your call.
Move on. The time will come sooner than you think for him to realize your value. I broke up 2.5 years ago with a man who loved to floss. He said I was
crazy to not enjoy income in a big way. He earned a 6 fig income, but saved
very little. So the economy affected his industry;he lost his job;his house was forclosed on, etc. Last month the bank auctioned off his house and I
was able to bid on it. (didn't win the bid) He was there, he saw me and begged me to buy the house back for him. I simply introduced him to my finace, who is a real estate investor/developer and invited him to our July wedding. If I'd spent my time trying to get back at my ex, I wouldn't been
available for my wonderful fiance....who is a SCORPIO HEY!!!!!
I agree that it's best to move on, life's too short to begin wit, but it never hurts to put on heels and a dress and "accidently" bump into him at the coffee shop you know he goes to every morning.....
Sounds like great advice!