Ask him to.
Look, you'll get nowhere by being passive. Be active. Ask him to get in touch, but more importantly, explain why you want him to text you first. Make sure he understands that, because it's really the lack of attention that seems to be bothering you.
Well, if he wanted to text you he would. If he wanted to call you, he would.
I have a bad feeling about this, I don't know. Having to chase after a guy is not a nice thing to do. You can do what RP suggested, but if he doesn't change, then he's not worth it.
Welcome to the clam Ms. I am engaged and have simillar issues.
I recently got engd with a hard working and sensible dude.Marriage plans in April 2013.Its LDR.
My fiance has strict rules abt not answering calls/msgs at work.
B4 engt, v used 2 chat for hrs after his work times and it cntd till a month after.
Recently Nocalls/video chats. Barely any chats/msgs in the week.
I emailed him making him realize he is pushing me away.He has been making efforts to give me a little time daily. This lack of communication in the week and a flood of chats and calls on his day off is kicking off my balance.My gut feeling : he is taking me for granted, or somethings fishy.
What do you think RP?
Thanks.
I would do what Dan suggests, but then I would stop contacting him altogether. They say you teach people how to treat you. If you do not contact him first, he will either contact you or he won't. If he doesn't, you are better off without a guy who is too busy for you...