First, you should introduce his face to the palm of your hand. Then you should plant your foot in his ass and send him in the general direction of the door. Oh, all of his exes got boob jobs? So what? Who is this guy, Hugh Hefner? Actually, sorry Hef, I didn't mean to drag you down to this guy's level. This guy is the worst. He was probably in line ahead of me at Starbucks the other day barking into his Bluetooth. He's human trash. You deserve better.
Ugh, right? This guy makes me ill. It's bad enough that he's pressuring you into getting a painful (and potentially risky) surgery, but to also expect you to pay for it? Man, I almost admire the cojones on this guy. (Though I imagine his actual cojones are shriveled and pea-sized.) I mean, that's some straight up villainy right there. I assume this guy is either super-rich, or a psychopath. Does he moonlight as a supervillain on the weekends? If this guy had a map of New York City and blueprints for a freeze ray machine in his basement, I wouldn't be all that surprised. I mean, I feel bad when I send back food at a restaurant. I can't even fathom what goes on in this guy's head.
What are you getting out of this relationship? Sounds like a lot of nothing. This can't be good for your self-esteem. What does he have going for him that he can demand that you mutilate your body? You shouldn't have to change yourself physically to keep a man. He obviously doesn't care enough for you to respect your feelings.
Tell him that you don't want to do it, and that he's a jerk for insisting that you pay for it yourself. Say that you wouldn't do it even if he paid for it. If this is a dealbreaker, he knows where the door is. Chances are, you aren't the first woman who has showed it to him. Let him run around with strippers with fake, vein-y breasts and wake up 65 and alone. There are plenty of good guys out there. You know what you need to do.
Oh, and definitely let the door hit him on the way out. Do it for me?
Ugh, right? This guy makes me ill. It's bad enough that he's pressuring you into getting a painful (and potentially risky) surgery, but to also expect you to pay for it? Man, I almost admire the cojones on this guy. (Though I imagine his actual cojones are shriveled and pea-sized.) I mean, that's some straight up villainy right there. I assume this guy is either super-rich, or a psychopath. Does he moonlight as a supervillain on the weekends? If this guy had a map of New York City and blueprints for a freeze ray machine in his basement, I wouldn't be all that surprised. I mean, I feel bad when I send back food at a restaurant. I can't even fathom what goes on in this guy's head.
What are you getting out of this relationship? Sounds like a lot of nothing. This can't be good for your self-esteem. What does he have going for him that he can demand that you mutilate your body? You shouldn't have to change yourself physically to keep a man. He obviously doesn't care enough for you to respect your feelings.
Tell him that you don't want to do it, and that he's a jerk for insisting that you pay for it yourself. Say that you wouldn't do it even if he paid for it. If this is a dealbreaker, he knows where the door is. Chances are, you aren't the first woman who has showed it to him. Let him run around with strippers with fake, vein-y breasts and wake up 65 and alone. There are plenty of good guys out there. You know what you need to do.
Oh, and definitely let the door hit him on the way out. Do it for me?
Nick is right, kick this guy to the curb.
SMH... Plastic surgery is a personal choice, and I'd never knock someone's desire to get it done, but I've noticed that boob jobs can get botched pretty horribly ( If not preformed by a sane doc)... Beach ball titts that look angry at each other yuck, no thanks . And the operation looks as if someone if stuffing a turkey.. So painful .
Its a big pond out there, and his prehistoric ass needs a reality check. Toss this one back, he's no good.
You are 45 years old, old enough to smell the shit this idiot is stepping in. Be a strong queen, not a weak little duck (I'm not attacking you, I think all women have to have this mindset in order to prevent a waste of protoplasym like this guy from poisoning your self image. ) .
Thank you for your comment, he told me that if i got one he would be ready for a marriage and would be totally satisfied lol the sad thing is..is he is a very handsome man...what a waste!! lol thanks again for replying.
They're his exes for a reason. If they all grew a mustache, would you grow one, too?
Ask him to get a penis enlargement surgery. Oh, and while he's at it, a lobotomy, as well.
thanks for your reply it is very funny but very useful lol
Key phrase ...."his last 3 exes did it..." Next time he'll be pressuring a woman, he'll say ..."my last 4 exes did it" ... don't fall into that pattern.
thanks for the comment, he told me that an augmentation would totally satisfy him and make him ready for a marriage..but the last 3 had an augmentation and they are divorced, so obviously that is not what would make him happy, i wonder some times if he is in a race to see how many would do it for him...i dont know maybe its crazy thinking on my part, it just makes me sad because i am not ugly and i was happy with my 38 Cs i feel like a failure on my part but i am glad i didnt give in.
My ex wanted me to get a boob job when I was already a D cup! He said if I loved him, I would consider it (the old manipulation trick). I told him to put a sock in it and that if he wanted to date Pamela Anderson, he was welcome to do so. He shut up real quick.
Maybe you should tell him that you'll get a boob job if he gets a member job because that tiny little pencil just isn't doing it for you.
that is hillarious, thank you for the comment they just keep getting better and better lol
Ugh, he's 53 for boobs' sake! Aren't fiftysomething men supposed to be mature and have let go all the porn-y fantasies?? He's old enough to be a grandparent, for crying out loud!
Ain't nothing wrong with your girls, sweetheart. His mind is. Twistedly so.
Agreed with Jude and sister Anonymous there. If he even stutter the word "augmentation" again, slap him right back with "penis enlargement".
Jeez, what a dick.
Seriously this guy takes the douche cake!
Sweetie though I may be younger than most the women here I do know this list is things you should remember:
1) It's YOUR body not his, so if you don't want to alter it DON'T
2) All his ex's got the boobs most likely in hopes of keeping him or for that marriage promise, obviously it didn't work
3) You should tell him to shove the boob job he wants you to get up where the sun don't shine aka his ass then he can see implants aren't for everyone
4) You are SO much better than staying with a guy who will manipulate you with your feelings to get something he wants but you may not
So with those things in mind stick to your guns honey! Stand up and make him hear you ROAR!!! I know it can suck to have a guy who looks hot but you know what? Looks fade, they meet with gravity then say goodbye! Someone who truly cares and loves you for you and not what you could get done to your body and has a personality is worth far more than this creep could ever dream of.
And if he still instists you get your body altered, which I don't think anyone should do for anyone but themselves because after all YOU have to live with it on your body, then YOU start telling HIM he should go get this that and the other thing fixed with surgery with HIS money and see how he digs it. Most likely he won't like it and it may make him realize he's a douche but since he's in his 50's I highly doubt he'll change his tone even if you tell him to go get surgery just to make you happy.
And tell him while you're booting his ass out the door and throwing his things out the windows that no thanks you would want to be married to a shallow douche cake like him ever!
Oops I meant WOULDN'T WANT lol sorry bout my typo XD
Aww meepa thank you for that very good advice, hes already said no augmentation then no marriage and i told him today it wasnt going to happen and he said his goodbyes. Thank you for taking the time to comment and write this, their are some very nice people on this site. Have a Great Day!
Dear Sharon, anyone deserves better then that! I'm sure this fool threw away a diamond. I'm single, I go through the motions with guys I date and no one has ever come close to being the person I needed them to be. So like the many women out there, keep pressing on. There are reasonable, loving men in the world. Guys who wont make it their life's mission to disappoint you . It just takes time to sift through the dirt to find a good one.
If someone told me they wouldnt marry me bc I didnt have bigger faker boobs ... I would laugh in his face! It is literally comical that he is so superficial. I mean I can't even imagine the conversation before you two ended things...no boobs no marriage? There is a lot more to worry about in life buddy! How about donating the boob job money to a charity? helping the world? nahhh not his style? ... Meanwhile they wont let gays get married! Boy oh boy we live in a sick sad world!
JERK JERK MEGA JERK.
He doesn't even understand how big boobs aren't that great anyway, ESPECIALLY if they are fake.
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THESE ARE GOOD EXAMPLES.
Those things attached to Heidi aren't breasts. They're plastic beach balls.
Just had to warn Dita that just because people get older doesn't mean they get wiser. Some people are just as jerky as when they were young, sometimes even more so because they've gotten away with it for so long.
So don't go assuming an older guy is always more mature. There are fucked-up people in every age group, as we've seen in this post.
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douche bag extraordinaire.
Tell him to come back down to Earth and unf*ck himself and then dump him!