Why do you care that your husband finds fat attractive? The fact is he likes the fatties and you clearly sound like one. That is unless your husband is very, very small, which with the dwindling number of new recruits into the armed forces, is possible.
Instead of caring so much why your husband likes the tubbily-blessed, you should focus on other things like finding new fast food restaurants (hmm, could be a thyroid thing, I know). Seriously though this relationship is perfectly balanced, you are large and your husband likes large. You also may very well have a good personality/heart, etc. which may account for other reasons why your husband finds you hot.
As I discussed in this often misinterpreted and misunderstood answer to a recent question, your husband is a "classic chubby chaser."
Therefore, Don't sweat it.
MM, you never explained yourself on that misinterpreted and misunderstood answer. what did you mean?
The woman said that she WAS 130, and gained 40 pounds. So, being at 170, and a bit rounder than before, Mystery Man said that her husband liked her new, round physique. People got pissy, thinking (for some reason i can't figure out. Can't people read?) that Mystery Man was calling her 130 pound self chubby. People seemed to misread her question, and assume that she NOW weighs 130 after gaining that weight, which is ludicrous. It'd be impossible to carry a child if she had only weighed 90 pounds before pregnancy, anyways.
Yeah, apparently, the word "chubby" gets some people eyes so red they can't process information properly because of rage.
Weight is one of the top touchy subjects in occidental society these days.
I can understand how someone could get offended by this subject, but I cannot understand how some will just charge without even taking 5 seconds to be sure they understood what the other ment.
Jesus, do you have to be so rude, MM?
MM, That was REALLY rude! Your website is for women. If you want them to continue to write in, I would find a more polite way of answering them! Damn!
site may be for chicks but they write in wanting a guy's honest answers and insight about things. Guys aren't always sweet and polite (neither are girls really lol) so he just being honest. Even if it seems rude, it sounds more sarcastic to me. If her hubby loves her for who she is, he's baffled by why she's in a state of such denial. Her hubby married her knowing how she looks and if they've been together for a long while and she STILL doesn't believe him, I'd be a bit insulted or hurt. Cause that's like saying that 'you don't really love me you're just saying that to say it.'
She needs to believe more in her and work on her self-dislike of herself and be happy she's married to a guy who loves her for who she is; instead of being rude and telling her that she's a fat-ass and needs to lose it. She's in a real good loving place, I'd say
He's the Mystery Man. He doesn't have to sugarcoat his answers. He just gives you the blunt truth.
Well lol, wow, sweetie don't take the chubbies and the fatties seriously. I've been a big girl all my life and I've gotten more men than my sisters put together lol. Its all about CONFIDENCE and DO YOU LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE NOW. I believe your husband %100 because if he wasnt attracted to you, i dont think he would be as loving and affectionate. I say if its bothering you so much lose weight...its simple...
MM, lol I love it don't change a thing....ive been called fat names all my life to the point im so use to it lol I find it funny. I can tell your not a man that is into the fatties lol...lol but yea...lol ur hilarious
that was a bit rude but its okay:) the truth hurts ._.
I've got to agree. What, are we supposed to call her skinny? I mean, seriously. She's the one who asked him. He gives it bluntly because isn't that what shes looking for? She asked and he gave an answer and just because its not totally comforting because he calls her tubby doesn't mean it wasn't a good answer. :)
ok, so just becuz she asked he has to be rude? what a dick. i guess you dont like big girls but you dont have to ridicule somebody. try a big girl once MM i swear your opinion will change
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