Fatigue is the godfather of cock blocking. No, belligerent frat boy or needy friend holds a candle to the great Satan that is "the sleepies."
Humans have base needs like food, water, shelter and procreation, but nature gives them a pecking order. Cave people instinctively stopped boning when a roving pack of lions would attack their camp. Now's not the time, their brains would sound: Drop your boners and run like hell!
This same innate reflex is going on with you and your sex life. Your body wants sleep. It can't function without rest, and though it conflicts with your theoretical interest in sex, and the amount of sex you "feel" you should be having, it's not priority number one. You need to hit the pillow, not the penis.
Short of quitting your job, my advice is don't be so hard on yourself. Sex is meaningful but so is communicating your stress followed by hardcore spooning. Don't be one of the women who push through their guilty yawns to give their man an apologetic blow job.
What's more, perhaps you will begin building up a tolerance to your tough work schedule. Your pooped to pump ratio may increase naturally over time.
Okay so I'm really sorry how off-topic this is, but I just tried to register on the site, and kept getting error messages. Plus, it told me "user name already taken" even though I tried some RIDICULOUS stuff that I doubt anyone else has taken. Anyone else have this problem, or any advice?? Thanks and sorry again.
Honestly, I love this website, but it has back-end errors up the wazoo. Sometimes the links go to a blank page, other times I'm not able to see past questions, but the most annoying this is how long it takes for comments to show up. I've seen people quadruple post before. I've learned to wait it out.
As for your question, while you don't need to register in order to comment on a question, or ask one. If you really want to, I would try a different browser. Chrome or Firefox are my two favorites. If you're still having problems, try clearing your history?
Agreed! I always only push submit once, and 9/10 times my comments pop up twice. (Fingers crossed for this one.)
Also, in reference to the question (I feel bad we're using your question as tech support!): It's only horrible if you and your boyfriend think it's horrible. If you're both not satisfied, you're going to have to make an effort even if you're tired. If you're happy with your lives and your relationship, who cares if you have sex less often right now?
Hardcore Spooning - up there with Extreme Snuggles.