Slow down, Recent Non-Virgin.
You probably won't ever forget him, but that's OK. 99% of us remember the person who took our virginity. The other 1% were blacked out on Jägermeister shots. Of the 99% who remember, not all of them have fond memories - it sounds like you do and will.
Now, regarding this being unmatched in your future sexual travels, that is incredibly unlikely. Yes, there is a magic and charm to firsts, but firsts also mean elementary. Your sex was elementary. Remember the books and math problems you worked on in 3rd grade? Not the same as high school or college. They say sex is like riding a bike. Sure, in that it starts with sweaty palms and training wheels, but as you gain skills the ride changes, your straddle shifts from hanging on, to a place of control and grace --creating serious twists and turns along the way.
Lastly, have you ever heard of a bike going for one spin around the block and being ditched as used goods? You just got on the track and you're already worried about being seen as worn out? Not that you should just break in your tires with anyone, but you've got plenty of joy rides left before being labeled a freewheeling ho'.
I’m curious…, how old she is.
I'm with SS there...
How old is she? And also it sounds like there's a lot of guilt that goes along with this first time - from the religious, "save yourself for marriage or the man won't love you" type of thing.
Just to clarify, I slept with him more than once. My parents are more conservative than I am, so I guess it's more about the guilt from not being married to the person.
As for the people concerned about my age, there's a little girl inside of us all (lol), and I suppose losing my first sexual partner brought that out of me.
I've talked to other women, and one of them told me how amazing the sex was with her second partner...so I'm not really worried about the physical chemistry aspect with future romantic prospects.
Thanks!
i can't speak Eng.