URGH.
Stop being so damned dumb and open your eyes.
You hang out and make out once in a while? How thrilling for you, while he does whatever he wants in the gaps while you pine. Cut the guy off at the pass - as in he shall not pass!
Two people here. Tell him to sling his hook - you got the right to do that. You are not some possession!
SHEESH! Where is you pride and self respect? You can only get played if you want to get played, and you, my dear, want to get played. I can be gentle with inexperience. I can respect problems. But there is no cure for stupidity and lack of self worth.
Ouch! harsh answer but he is right, as someone who got stringed along for 4 years I know exactly what your talking about when you say he gets distant. He wants to hangout and then you hangout and he gets weird and quiet. As women we like to think there is something to "figure out" we wonder for endless hours what he wants and what is going on in his head. When it comes to men this basic rule will save you years of wasted time on a guy. If they aren't asking you to be their girlfriend, if they aren't in your business texting, asking to move in, wanting to see you often and telling you they love you. They simply aren't that into you. Sad but true. Wishy washy behavior = not in love with you, and never will be. Don't let him waste more of your time. Send him an, im moving on don't contact me text and move on with your life.
lmmfao....hammer time!
what were you hoping here? that MM was going to say, "no worries, all men secretly in love act distant on occasion. there is hope for you yet." you aren't confused. you are distorting reality to accommodate your fantasies with present circumstance. i don't act distant when i'm in love, nobody does, that's just stupid.
Just move on, girl. You deserve better. ;)