Hell to the mother grabbin' yes, this is cheating. Think about what you just wrote me: your boyfriend sent pics of his wang to an ex-lover. He wrote emails to her about their love and sex life, with photo attachments to boot. I'm not sure how to not construe this as cheating. He is cheating on your relationship. He sent his penis to her over the internet. If she lived next door he would have sent his penis to her in a box. Your man catching up with an old 5th grade flame over Facebook, hey remember when I won you that stuffed elephant at the county fair and we shared a plate of cheese fries? This is your man, balls out defacing your relationship.
It reminds me of girls I grew up with who only had anal sex so they could save their virginity. Something about having anal sex to prevent sex seems, I don't know, a convenient matter of semantics. I think you are caught up in the same head space. And while cheating is defined by individuals and individual couples, rest assured, what you're describing would be on 97 out of 100 people's cheating list. This isn't Chat Roulette, Craig's List or Ebay, this is your relationship were talking about. His actions equal deep betrayal and a brazen piss on your couplehood.
You've uncovered a twisted pickle. I wish you luck trying to straighten it out.
What he said!!!!
*Poor Girl*xx
I'm very sorry but it is time to break up with him. If he asks why, just ask him how HE would feel if you were to do the same thing with an ex. He's not available to you anymore.
Also, who keeps naked pictures of old ex's? Extra porno? Time to end it.
Yuck. Seriously.
If it was just reminiscing, who gives a fuck save for shallow picky fuckfaces. But the pictures= no.
My boyfriend did the same thing, however, he told me about it. I am still trying to figure this all out in my head. He says that it was just for fun and that he exchanged them for topless pics of other "ex girlfriends" because he just wanted to see breasts. He has a large appetite and is a common user of porn. He says getting pics while social networking is the same as googling or watching porn. It's harmless but fun.
He claims that it is a common thing happening in the social media world today. He says it is very normal to reminisce about past sexual experiences with ex's, but I don't get it because he is my one and only. He told me to ask around to see what other people say. I guess it is the look but don't touch policy???