Love the tag "are you high?" LMAO

Yes, a threesome is just what the lovebirds need to get things on the right track. But to really be *fair*, the wife should not be a part of it and it should be three women and the husband. Just my thought. Best of luck!

To quote the Talman:
"'Jetah, that is not fair'
'Now you answer from stupidity.'"

Only if the threesome doesn't include her.

Damn, girl. Damn.

Ay-yi-yi-yi-yi! I think the only kind of "threesome" this couple ought to be involved in is the two of them making an appointment to see a marriage counselor together for some lengthy counseling sessions.

At the same time, while she did cheat on him 3 times, I'm assuming that both she and the other guy(s) were willing partners. It doesn't sound like she is so willing to be involved in this threesome. Using her cheating as a way to blackmail her into having a threesome seems wrong as well. Now, if he wanted to sleep with someone else then I would say that's fair; having her be involved in the actual sex part when she doesn't want to be seems, at best, manipulative to me. Also she might just be unwilling to drag one of her friends into this mess or she might be uncomfortable doing this with her friend, and I don't think anyone should feel pressured to do something sexual that they're uncomfortable with. Although I do agree that they both need to resolve their issues before anything else.

I actually know someone who was in this exact situation. Somehow having a threesome/encouraging the hubby to have several affairs made everything better, in this person's mind.

I don't get it, either. If my hubby cheated on me, it's the last he'd ever see of his balls and his kids, I promise you that.

Okay I have to... Um, I cheated more than once. So just FYI, we all have our stories and our paths and our lessons to learn. Don't judge unless you've been in someone else's shoes. People can change if they really want to.

Though I have to say, no, she did not sound remorseful. And that's what's worrisome about her letter. Care to prove us wrong, question asker?

LOL! I concur with Cary. "Is it fair". lol! And for all those others that have cheated on their other half... once, twice, a hundred times, it doesn't matter. You disrespected, humiliated, and hurt that person. There is no excuse. NO not everyone makes that mistake. It's called being self conscious of what you do, and having a conscience. I've had my opportunities to cheat, I've also had every reason to, but not once have I ever done so. It's a personal choice, in which I factor in self discipline, respect for the other person, respect for myself, and integrity.

"Are you high?" Hahahahahhahaa brilliant

In this exact situation (and no other) a threesome is THE only remedy. This will solve all of their marital problems in their entirety. I read it somewhere, I swear. They'll all wake up the next morning, the third party will leave forever (with no further awkward glances, etc.), the husband and wife will gaze into one another's eyes and see that what they wanted was right before them the whole time and neither party will stray again. They must act fast, though and send pictures to the following address: www.

What?!!

Be right there, hon!

"Fair" not be the right word. But "helpful" might be. He is feeling insecure and wants to prove his manhood by having the threesome.

If you love him you should give it a try. You two might find if fun, or at least it might allow him to think he got his revenge and now the two of you can continue your marriage -- if that's what you want to do.

Why you cheated is the key issue -- do you not love him any more or were you just seeking sexual satisfaction he was not providing you? If you still love him the threesome might help start solving the problem. If you don't love him you should just say so and leave.

1) Sex can't be used as "punishment." That's sick.
2) Seriously, "FAIR?"

Cheating is never good I had the three times and now that girl is stuck living with her mentally ill mother and her debt-ridde boyfriend while I had the most emotionally, mentally, and sexually fulfilling relationship of my life (Four-to-five times-a-week) but I am serious about the first two as well sex can't sustain two years and some change