He was calm because he shat himself and was desperately trying to remember if there was a restroom nearby. When you told him the truth, it wasn't disappointment you saw, but disbelief and annoyance that you would pull such a prank.
Yes, that was a crappy trick to play on him--not the worst I've ever heard, but definitely edging into very dark territory. He's probably afraid of you now.
Was this your passive-aggressive way of punishing him for not wanting kids? If so, bad move. I don't know many 25-year-old men who want kids, at least not right away. Are you worried that he'll never change his mind? Do you want kids at 22? Why is this even an issue at your age? Yeah, I know--it was just a joke. But many a truth is told in jest.
I think you need to make amends, first by promising never to pull such an evil trick again. Then you can replace the boxer shorts you made him ruin.
Thanks for the question.
no matter how many times i read that i see the word manipulative. you said it yourself, horrible gf. good on you for the "shat" word usage, cary lmao!
Why is this question getting asked again? Was the @ssload of negative responses from the last time not enough for this woman?
I agree with you, Cary; good answer. But the last time this was asked (can't remember which guy answered it), the original asker left a long comment about how she didn't want kids either and they prank each other constantly and blah blah blah, basically justifying her prank. So I'm sure your answer will go in one of her ears and out the other.
The ONE TIME I don't check to see if a question has already been answered, and look what happens. Oh well...
Your answer was awesome. Totally worth the repeat! She should definitely replace those boxers.
Aw, thank you!
Haha oh man, that's a coincidence for ya! Still, great answer!
Thanks, Carly.
Yeah. She had to explain herself over the responses. I just feel sorry for her. If she didn't really feel guilty or unsure of "something" within her relationship, she wouldn't have asked the question to multiple of the GS men anyway. What was she expecting? A pat on the back and another person to laugh with her and her prank?
He believed in you…, he doesn’t now.
Of course he was disappointed, but most likely not because he actually wanted a kid. He was disappointed that you'd have the gall to pull at trick like that.