Yeesh. No, not a fan of this. You're acting more like his mom than his girlfriend. Cutting him off from the normal things in your relationship is withholding and passive aggressive. And much like the silent treatment, we're not fans of passive aggressive behavior in relationships.
Also, I'm wondering why your guy is okay with this. Did he apologize for how he acted? Has he done anything to make up for it and convince you he has changed and won't be a jerk anymore? You know who gets privileges taken away when they do something wrong? Kids. Maybe they'll change their behavior and learn from their mistakes, or maybe they'll just sullenly suffer through their punishment. But they may mess up again, and get their cell phone or PSP taken away. You know why? BECAUSE THEY ARE CHILDREN AND THEY DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER. Unlike your boyfriend, they are learning to be responsible people.
Your boyfriend is ostensibly an adult if he has a girlfriend with a Netflix account and normally enjoys the nice cheese she gets at the grocery store. So he should act like a man and apologize and make it up to you. And you should stop being passive aggressive. Sure, you might need some time to forgive him. There may be issues you need to talk through. Maybe he needs to know how he acted was not okay, and you don't want to be with someone who treats you that way. But he doesn't need to be treated like a child. It's not healthy for either of you. Also, you deserve to be with someone who you don't have to treat like a child.
Nick, you are far too nice sometimes.
Probably why the OP asked Nick rather than you, honey ;).
I will say this is a desperation move on my part. I've called him on it, countless times. And he always has some excuse. I hate to say it, but this got results, because afterwards we talked and he said he was going to make the effort to compromise and work with me on this. I have tried the in your face, this is what you're doing, this is why I'm mad, this is how you need to fix it thing. This was the last resort, and I really didn't like using it, because frankly, I love spoiling those I care about. But there comes a point where you feel you're being used for your goods.
We are normally pretty careful not to cross advise, but re-read Nicks answer, then your reply.
You are being used. Question is why?
Not quite sure... My goal here was to show him that I'm not to be pushed around and treated poorly, because I actually do go out of my way for him. I don't think he realized what I do for him until such a time as I wasn't doing it. Part of it was my bad, because even when he acted like a douche, I still gave in. Whatever the case may be, I guess I'll see what happens. If he stops with the shitty attitude then there we have it. If he doesn't then I will move past this, because I deserve a hell of a lot more than what I'm getting now.
Nano Girl, I understand where you're coming from. This wasn't a you forgot we had a date and spent the night playing Halo with your friends incident. It seems like he expects you to help subsidize his life style. No, no buddy, you are both grown adults and can take care of yourselves.
You got tired with taken being advantage and rightfully cut him off. I really hoped this worked for you and that he has finally realized all that you bring to his life. I also hope you told him to step his game up with you. Since you said you deserve a hell of lot more than what I'm getting now.
Good luck and if he goes back to his old ways, kick him to the curb.
Kids...