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I dated a guy for a few months. We hadn't spoken in two months but he went back to his country for good today. He told me he was leaving two days ago and I didn't get the chance to say goodbye. I never loved him but I feel so sad and lost, I will never see him again. He is the first guy I dated, how do I get over this?

Okay, let's review. You dated him for just a few months. You haven't spoken to him in months. You knew he was leaving but you didn't bother to see or even call him. You never loved him.

Yes, I can see how you would be devastated by his departure.

How do you get over it? Have a sandwich and watch some Modern Family reruns. You'll be as good as new by tonight.

No, I get it. Sort of. Now that he's gone, you appreciate and miss him more, especially since he was the first guy you dated, and you wish you had taken time to see him before he split. Unfortunately, you didn't, and there's not a thing you can do about it now except take to heart this very important life lesson: enjoy people you care about while you can--friends, boyfriends, family members, parents--because one day they will be gone.

Thanks for the question.

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chrissie1101

i'm gonna start scrolling to read the tags first from now on with yours. thanks for the lol

goodkarmagirl

Response A..... Tag A+

Miss Somnus

I don't think she never love him. Ok, maybe not love but care about him.Or else she won't feel she needs to find a way to get over it.
Sometimes, we don't realize how much important that some ppl to us and think they will stick around but when the time comes, we always find out the sad truth after they gone.
I was in such situation before and WA is right, we have to take this very important life lesson into heart.
Hey,btw,the rerun of the Modern Family will help?

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Modern family will help because it's a good tv show. It's a joke

Tamsin

Modern family is an AWESOME show!

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