Sure you can find a guy like that. You just have to know where to look, which is why the Internet so totally rocks.
Let's be real, you are largely going to find men out and about who want sex. We just do. It's what we want. Men = sex. However, there are those guys out there who are willing and wanting to wait just like you.
The problem is that you can't tell somebody's characteristics just by looking at them. So you have to dig deep. Well if you find some waiting for sex website, you can filter through straight to the type of guys you want and then it becomes about the same stuff the rest of us are trying to sift through: who they are as people, etc.
So that's my suggestion: get thee to the Internet.