You worry too much. You’ve found something that you don’t like about yourself and you’re obsessing about it needlessly.
Labia come in all different sizes, shapes and colors. They’re like any other body part: no two are exactly alike from woman to woman. You say yours are “really long”–compared to what? Do women sit around comparing them? I don’t think so. There’s no standard. Some are small, some are big, some are in-between. There’s no right or wrong.
No guy with half a brain is going to laugh at your labia, not if he wants to get any closer to them. I’ve said it before–most guys don’t know the difference or don’t care. Even if guys did scrutinize labia, what would you do about it? Never have sex? Have them shrunk? Get surgery? You could, I guess, if it bothered you enough and you have the money, but it’s unnecessary. It’s like worrying about a zit on your forehead that no one will ever notice but you.
That’s my take, but what do I know about having labia? I would appreciate some insight from our female readers. Do you worry about the size of your labia? What can you do about it? Has a guy ever made a crack about the size of your lady bits? Thanks.
And thanks for the question, OP.