I'm sorry, but I'm confused as to how you could be used when you're in an admitted FWB situation? So you've gone some time without shellacking, how does that change anything. That'st he beauty of friends-with-benefits, you don't have to do all of the thinking. You just call them up and you all do what you do.
I mean, isn't he being used too? He's a handsome, manwhore. Whoopty do. That's irrelevant since you both were getting something out of the deal. Did you try to bone him during that time and he brushed you off, or do you just get wang on his call?
What it sounds like is its a FWB situation for him, but for you he's somebody you liked sleeping with and when it stopped you felt some kind of way - which is an FWB violation. It clearly states in the code that two FWBs shall do all they can to not catch feelings.
The fact that you're even questioning the transactions means that you probably need to tap out and acknowledge you caught some feelings. And then let it go. Tell him he cannot bone because you can't just let it go like that.
But you're not being "used" per se. You're doing what the FWB engagement is know for. Sex on demand.
Your the one that said it was a FWB relationship so why would you be confused on if you were getting used?
Your the one that said it was a FWB relationship so why would you be confused on if you were getting used?