How soon can you file for divorce? Tell your husband you want a divorce, go through the proper filing. If you have kids, wait a few months to get them used to the idea of you dating again. Then call your ex, free from the guilt of what you're doing to your husband.
Come on. Seriously.
It's really a rare case I respond so nastily to people...
Seriously. Since when did cheaters have the audacity to even ask "How long should I wait to contact him so I won't look desperate?"
CHEATER, YOU ALREADY ARE DESPERATE! Get out of your marriage and save your husband some decency and respect.
These just makes me so darn angry I have to remember I'm only human. (I had to edit myself here. Gawd, I hate cheaters!)
i just gave you and nick a standing ovation.
Hehe you tell them, my kaibigan!
Hello Kababayan!
I agree. "How long should I wait so I don't look desperate?" How about be a woman and get a divorce first so you don't look like a home-wrecking skank.
Please!
Haha. Awesome advice. Truth bombs.
You are a terrible person, I really hope you never have children, a person like you would be a terrible role-model. If you do have kids, give custody to your husband, you are an unfit parent and human-being.
"I just ran over my husband with my car. Should I back up over him again, or just drag him from my bumper down to the stop sign?".
Not any more ridiculous than your question. Sorry.
exactly! if you have already thrown the concepts trustworthy, decency, honesty, and committed out the window, why worry about a pesky little thing like manners?
AFFAIR: anything done or to be done; anything requiring action or effort; business; concern: an affair of great importance.
ADULTERY: voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse.
You didn't have an affair, you committed adultery. If you're gonna do it, call it by it's name....I'm just saying.
You know, from now on, we should be using the right term! Thanks for this!!! Makes it weigh more heavily (I hope) to the adulterers' conscience.
What a deceiptful desperate slut.