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I have a big crush my daughters school counselor. I think there is a mutual attraction. When ever we talk there is a nervous shy energy about him. He never overtly flirted with me. He a pretty laid back reserved guy although he has managed to throw in a question or 2 about my status should I tell him im interested?

As a general rule, you shouldn't date anyone directly involved in your child's education. So even though he's a school counselor instead of a sports coach or math teacher, you'd be entering some very dangerous and awkward territory by doing any more than casual flirting.

Also, I'd like you to consider what kind of impact it would have on your daughter. Imagine her coming home from a friend's house to see her mom and her school counselor abruptly stop snuggling on the couch. Imagine what kind of questions she'll have to answer at school if other parents see you and the counselor out at dinner somewhere.

Dating within a child's school blurs a lot of lines and creates more drama than the relationship is worth. So keep having the crush if you can't talk yourself out of it, but acting on it is going to be very bad for everyone involved.

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My mom dated my favorite teacher when I was in 8th grade. It was absolutely horrible. Kids can and will make fun of you for anything...do you want to risk putting your kid through that for a crush?

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I had not thought about that. I am hoping we can connect after she graduates this summer. This response definitely helps me put this in better perspective.

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