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I have been dating a girl for 1 year and 4 months. In that time I used her mom so I could be with Cassidy (my gf) more. I had sex with her 50 year old mom so she would like me more so I could be with her daughter more. My whole mind set was it's for Cassidy do it and go.....Bottom line, how do I tell my ex Cassidy?

Wait, what?? On the list of "ways to get your girlfriend's mom to like you," I can't imagine why you went with "sleeping with her mom behind her back." What about baking some cookies and bringing them over? Or offering to do the dishes after dinner? I'm not sure why you thought sleeping with her mom was going to bring you all closer. Now you've gone and turned it from a situation that was a little uncomfortable (the mom didn't like you) into a Maury Povich episode. 

Come on, dude. You didn't sleep with her mom for Cassidy's sake. Don't delude yourself into thinking it was for anyone other than yourself. More likely, you're a messed-up guy who was taken advantage of by an older woman. You should take to a family member or therapist about this, because what you did is not healthy.

So you're broken up with Cassidy now? Good. If not, disappear from her life immediately. She does not need to be with a guy who would sleep with her mom, whether it was for her (yuck) or not. In fact, she's better off never knowing what you did. Chances are she has it rough enough already having a mom who would sleep with her boyfriend. The last thing she needs to know is that her boyfriend slept with her mom. There's really no good way to tell someone that. If you must tell her, at least don't hide behind the "it was all for you, baby!" excuse. Be a man and tell her that you fell prey to her disgusting mother. You were weak, and her mom took advantage of that. Then leave them to sort out their drama. But, really, what she needs is you out of her life. And please get some help before you start dating again. Sleeping with your girlfriend's mom should never be an answer to any relationship problem.
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Wait, what? What the fuck? People really do that? Someone has actually justified pulling a Graduate? Fuck.

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If the guy is an adult and was when this grossness happened, he isn't a freaking victim of the mother's choices. They BOTH made the choice to be disgusting, and saying he was they prey is an immature cop out. C'mon, Nick.

Nick Nadel

Oh, I'm not letting him off the hook. He did it for himself, and not the girlfriend. I'm just saying he sounds like he needs to help.

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Okay hold up a sec...sleeping with a lover's parent is disgusting. But if everyone's saying "gross" because the woman was 50 and presumably the guy was younger...you have a problem.

Also, he didn't fall prey to her disgusting mother. He willingly took what she had to give. Let's call it what it is.

Nick Nadel

She's gross for going after her daughter's boyfriend. Not because she's old. The older woman/younger man thing isn't the issue here.

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He posted this so his ex girlfriend would see and think o gee he did it for me, obviously the reason they are apart is what happened, so s...w you Nick

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He posted this so his ex girlfriend would see and think o gee he did it for me, obviously the reason they are apart is what happened, so s...w you Nick

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He posted this so his ex girlfriend would see and think o gee he did it for me, obviously the reason they are apart is what happened, so s...w you Nick

AJ

He posted this so his ex girlfriend would see and think o gee he did it for me, obviously the reason they are apart is what happened, so s...w you Nick

AJ

He posted this so his ex girlfriend would see and think o gee he did it for me, obviously the reason they are apart is what happened, so s...w you Nick.

silkysly

I think I just threw up in my mouth.

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE tell me this is a made up email for the shock value it brings? If not.., what filthy rat bastard wound do that, let alone use that lame @$$ excuse?!?! (hurl, hurl)

chrissie1101

THANK you for saying that out loud. bloody hell!!!!

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How old is he? He sounds young. And it doesn't read like it was just once... and now everyone needs therapy.

Tariana

Remember the question posted to MM? The girl caught her fiance effing her mom?

Nely

Omg some people are just sickk. nice job chic geek. you told him to it straight. that he's just a friggin pervert and so is her mom. yuck!

VX

Oh Can the PC crap! This happens a lot. Get the "mom" and think woman! Perhaps a hot woman. Many do the mom and daughter sex bit. No biggie.

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you must be some slutty mom trying to rationalize seducing your daughters bf. even if you're not, shame on you.

chrissie1101

do yall have matching tramp stamps too?

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To the questioner: quick, I think Jerry Springer wants your phone number!

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Sometimes, I think the real reason I read sites like these, is so that whenever I think about how pathetic and messed up my own life has been, I can always take comfort that a least I'm like THAT...

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I have to say that for the past couple of hours i have been hooked by the impressive articles on this blog. Keep up the wonderful work.

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hahha I agree

AJ

i see now that i have been misunderstand about the comment, the s...w is not for nick nadel i dont know why somewhere i saw the cassidy bf name is nick...

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