The deal with that is that you're probably too afraid to make him label the relationship, so he doesn't and he treats you as such. Also, he probably doesn't want you to be his girlfriend or he'd been have put his stamp on that a long time ago.
Look, a guy who's wavering on how he feels about you will stay around as long as he can tolerate you and hit the skins (when's the last time you heard that statement?). At the point that you become too needy or ration out the poonanny (I'm in 90's overdrive here), he'll be out.
So what I'm saying here is that this is your fault. At some point you need to make him crap or get off the pot and instead he's been pissing all over the bowl and not even having to clean up. One year is way too long to be in relationship status limbo. By the way, he knows that too. My guess is that he's just waiting for you to say something that makes him make a decision and then he's outtie 5000. Word up.
What I'm saying in a nutshell is that you need to speak up and state your desires. People will only do what you let them. If you want a boyfriend and he won't make you his exclusive girlfriend, then perhaps he's not the guy for you.
It was written.
WTF is a "poonanny"? Sounds like some kind of automated pooper-scooper...
Pussy, cootchie, vagina, snatch, snapper, skins, clit, vulva...make sense now?
Haha i wouldnt say clit and vulva are exactly the same as vagina, more parts of it. But i love the slang names haha.
I'm approaching one year with my "friend". I don't mind the non-relationship part of it. Frees me up to be skanky without having to feel bad.
so true...im in a similar situation and plan to put the smack down this weekend! Crap or get off the pot buddy!!
I'm in a similiar situation. And I hate that I don't have the guts to make him choose. The only one confused in this non relationship is me...