It means that you have a very good shot at getting on either the Jerry Springer or Maury Povich shows or both. Here are links to their websites: Jerry and Maury. You should really apply.
Good luck to you and please stop having children soon. Our communal gene pool is getting very nervous.
Mystery Man you said that!!! That heifer just my my ankles swell with that foolishness!How smart do you have to be to know it means YOU'RE A RETARD IF IT MEANS ANYTHING OTHER THAN YOU'RE A RETARD!!! Im sorry for yellin but I cant help but be a lil annoyed when I realize I share the same sex of such f*ckery...........i need a drink.
if he loved you he would have married you. youre probably nice to have around but the love really isnt there. plus you have his kid. does his wife know about that?
You are what we call the mistress.
It means you have no self-respect.
You've been seeing this guy for 12 years, and he got married just a year ago. Your son is older than his marriage with her. I'm really curious about the whole backstory, but honestly, HONESTLY, why are you still with him? Alternatively, why did you let him get married to someone else in the first place? Good god.
She's not WITH him. She's fucking him. There's a difference. Being with somebody requires some form of mutual commitment.
Oooh. Didn't realize the difference. (Not from a sexually permissive culture, so the nuances were lost on me.) My point still stands, though. Why is she still sleeping with him/seeing him/whatever when she knows very well that he's an unfaithful prick?
Yes, your point does still stand.
it means he's a douchebag. surely there are other men out there?
Hell, there's even other douchbag's out there that aren't all tied up in such a CONFUSING situation!
Ahhh, yet another Grade A garbage answer from the arrogant prick known as the mystery man. I'd be afraid to show my real face, too, if I were you...
To the original post:
Sweetheart, where's your head at???
I know you probably have very strong feelings for this guy, and you want to keep him around for your kid's sake, but honestly! Have some respect for yourself! This guy is a straight up ass hole. And his actions clearly state that he thinks of you as nothing more than a sex object. His feelings for you go no further than the bedroom.
I know it really hurts to hear that, especially when he's been a part of your life for 10 years, but it's the truth. I would say he loves his wife, not you, but I'm not even sure if this scumbag is capable of loving.
I think the best thing you can do for you and your child is cut any ties with this guy and move on with your life. You deserve to be loved.
Mystery Man,
I loved your answer...AngelBG "made my ankles swell with that foolishness" LMAO
I love the Mystery Man's answer. It's exactly what I was thinking!
I mean c'mon, you want to know what it means that you're sleeping with someone else's husband? You have a child and you are a role model. Well at least you should be.
You should be thankful that he didn't marry You. Then You would be the deceived wife sitting at home while your husband defiles your marraige.
I'd suggest counseling. If you ever want a healthy relationship, you'll need to break this one off. Then you'll be available for the right guy. Someone you can have an honest relationship with.
I'm going downtown to bag a married lawyer. Who's with me?!?!
I can relate to your situation. I have a little problem myself that is somewhat of the same nature. My ex-husband cheated on me with a woman. I caught him with her and then they ended up getting married. So now he wants to have sex with me while he is married to her. If he loved her he wouldn't be cheating on her. And he has told people that he has made a mistake leaving me. He would never have the guts to try to say it if he wanted to come back. I know that its just about sex right now, but i wonder that maybe he might be hopeing for it to turn into something else. So i am wondering too.
Don't wonder. He's a cheater by nature. He cheated on you with his current wife, and now he wants to cheat on his current wife with you. You say he wants to sleep with you - you should ask, "Why doesn't he want more than that?" Sex does not equal respect or love. You got rid of him before - now do it again.
My God, close the vaginal doors on this guy!
it means you're a home wrecking whore. Just b/c you were with him first doesn't mean he's yours. He married another. Have enough respect for yourself to NOT sleep with a married man! What he's doing is wrong too but that is something that he's going to have to deal with when the time comes.
I'm always astounded that people let themselves be abused in this manner. Make no mistake - it is emotional abuse. Seriously, all it takes is enough self respect to say 'Fuck you, I won't let you treat me like a piece of dirt. Get out of my life.'
He married somebody else; he made his choice. It's time to choose to be treated like a human being. Find yourself somebody who will give you that common decency.
Wow, you are so right. I never thought of it like that before. I think I'm going to start coming to YOU with my questions! haha
that sucks..12 years wasted
It means that you dont' value Yourself or Love yourself to demand that from a man. Take this time to take care of yourself, and maybe seek therapy to figure out why you would allow someone to treat you like this ? You really do deserve to be happy, respected and a 100% partner.
What a lovely day for a 2997113! SCK was here