The sex is bad and you've already cheated on him once? No matter how nice this guy is, you have no business being with him. Tell him you cheated or just break up with him. Either way, end the relationship both for his sake and for yours.
You don't deserve to be stuck in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you. And your boyfriend doesn't deserved to be two-timed by a cheater. For those two reasons, both of you need some alone time.
Do not try to salvage the relationship, and spare him the heartbreak of knowing that a woman he cared about kicked him in the heart. Just tell him he's a nice guy and then leave him and go back to dating your ex. Or spend some time reassessing your morals. Heck, do that regardless.
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Yeah. What HE said.
Heed MM's advice and admire his restraint. Others responding may not be as kind.
I agree that you need to finish it since it is clear your not really all that happy with the relationship. But if I were you I would find a way to not say exactly why your breaking up with him. As far as hurting a guys ego goes.. It doesn't get much worse than you suck in bed so I cheated.
there is NEVER any excuse to cheat...period! If you aren't happy then break it off and get out. And if he really was that bad in bed, did you tell him or perhaps "coach" him so he could learn?
What a horribly selfish skank!
there is NEVER any excuse to cheat...period! If you aren't happy then break it off and get out. And if he really was that bad in bed, did you tell him or perhaps "coach" him so he could learn?
What a horribly selfish skank!
there are some pretty complicated questions that come in here. this is not one of them. you've already experienced what happens internally when you put yourself first in the relationship. the only way to soothe a guilty conscious is to do the right thing. the ONLY way. there is no easy way, it's one of the consequences of making bad choices. since this relationship is obviously doomed anyway, put this guy out of his misery. he deserves better than this.
This is my question and can I say as for 'skank' surely you shouldnt be commenting on help forums about relationships if your just going to be a dick, its advice not judgement day. Advice is what I came, not a cheap nasty comment from you.
Thanks MM I know what I have to do. I never said I felt proud over this, I am just a sexually needy person and shit happens I'm afraid 'Kristina', what a lovely name.. well thanks everyone with CONSTRUCTIVE advice :)