Ain't nature a son-of-a bitch? Here she goes and gives you perfectly lovely breasts - "pretty nice boobs," in fact, and then has the balls to place them a wee bit further from each other than you'd like. It's like having gorgeous aqua green eyes, only problem is they are a 1/2 inch apart, or the world's most handsome penis, but dangling from your calf. Why universe? Why bless us with these fantastic items and then fall just short on location?!
Getting "no cleavage" is often an issue for girls with small breasts. They, unlike you, don't have the mounds to even try to push or shove. I'm not sure quite how far apart you're talking about. Are they tucked under your armpits? Probably not. Perhaps they are not your ideal; perhaps they are not today's magazine pic of ideal, but I think most guys won't have huge issues with it. Many guys won't notice or "take in" the fact that your breasts are planted on the wider spectrum of the chest cavity. For those that do, I seriously doubt it's a deal breaker. They are more concerned with the quality of breast A and B not the X centimeters between them.
Of course, if you are talking about the sex act politely known as 'titty-f*cking', sure it might provide a little challenge. But how many minutes of your life are you really going to commit to titty-f*cking? 22? 45 tops?
A dose of healthy self-esteem, coupled with a push-up bra (if you wish) is all you really need for day-to-day life and dating. Don't worry if you can't hold a pen between your chest. Your boobs aren't meant to sign checks or add numbers. Enjoy your peaks and the wide valley. If a man wants you to have a narrower canyon tell him it wouldn't even be an issue if he had a thicker donkey.
Love the last line:) "thicker donkey" lol
Dude, no-one's boobs have cleavage without being pushed together, whether that's with hands or clothes or a bra. I've got 36DDs, perfectly central, and I don't have cleavage unless there's something to support them. Only superlarge, fake boobs touch, and even then they have to be of Jordan proportions and deliberately designed that way.
Congratulations, you're a normal human woman! ^_^
It's your bra, baby girl..., get a good one.
That's what I'm sayin'. They don't have to touch, for God's sake. Just get them up there as good as you can with a good, side-padded bra. I feel like this is the sort of thing most guys would be baffled by. "You mean, girls actually THINK about things like this?"
I was surprised by your lengthy answer, FG. I expected a simple, "No, they don't."
It's definitely not her bra. I have the same issue as her, though I don't have nice breasts like she does. My boobs are so far apart that even with a push up bra my c cups still have no cleavage. It's definitely not normal.
It's definitely not her bra. I have the same issue as her, though I don't have nice breasts like she does. My boobs are so far apart that even with a push up bra my c cups still have no cleavage. It's definitely not normal.
I think guys don't care as much as they claim to, honestly... 'Cleavage' is overrated. I advise you not to care.
I had a roommate who had implants and didn't get cleavage until I gave her one of my smaller bras. The right bra can do it, you just have to try different styles and sizes. She was supposed to be a d cup but when I had her try a c she got the look she wanted. I gained weight and ended up an h and have cleavage up to my neck. No fun when dressing for work or bra shopping. Be glad you're a c.
Guys like boobs...period!
is this a real question? for real? is somebody out there staying awake at night with this running through their mind incessantly? are you freaking KIDDING me.
I wrote the question! And no i don't stay awake at night incessantly thinking about my boobs...lol i have good self esteem... Just no cleavage! I also have a fiancé that can't keep his hands off my breasts...i guess i need a new bra! It's just a question
It's not your bra or anything... It's because of your rib cage. Some people, including myself, have a rib cage that is a bit more convex in the front, spreading your breasts a bit farther apart. I understand your frustration, as mine is present, especially because I have smaller breasts. Sometimes certain bras won't even fit me properly JUST because of this, even when the bra size is correct!
Try not to worry about it too much! And certain bras will end up doing a better "enhancement job" than others. It just takes trying on different ones in the store til you find one that pleases you. Anyway, happy goings!
I have a 26 back technically and the wiring pretty much have to touch in the middle for me to have a proper bra... it's a pain. I don't think I've ever had a proper fitting bra in my life. I do 28's because it's the only thing I can find after much searching... not in North America, but from the UK. :/ It's the biggest pain, ever. My small tits don't bother me much (it's not the problem), it's my back and the lacking of being able to wear a proper bra. It sucks, but there's worse... right? :)
Mine are the same way. C's, round, and perky. I have a push up bra that gets them pretty close, just not touching. Don't worry about it though; perky round boobs are still fiiine boobs. I used to be concerned about this, but apparently it's pretty damn attractive. Don't stress yourself out.
hey girl I think it is sexy when your boobs are a little bit apart give your number and I'll text you some time
Too far apart? Isn't that kind of necessary? If you have two offspring nursing at the same time, it keeps them from getting in each others way. Anyway, separation is normal and not even noticeable to men; if they are so close together you don't have to smoosh them to get cleavage, then you're probably too fat all over. To have nice tits, you have to have sufficient volume, B or C cup. More is less. Then you have to be firm and not swinging so low they chafe your knees. Next come the decorations (i.e., the straws in your cups); your nipples must not be too long; areolas must be round, not oblong, and no bigger than a silver dollar (some are bigger than a manhole cover and that's ugly) and a complimentary color compared to your skin tone, but never too dark. If you have all this, you have enough to interest any boob-loving man, so don't worry about how far apart they are. If you have an ample handful, rejoice! You are there! Remember, no man ever came to work Monday morning bragging that his newest girl let him feel her thyroid gland on their first date, so if you're blessed with a nice pair, stop worrying.
I have the same thing going on and believe me, it doesn't bother my guy. He likes that i don't have guys staring down my chest all the time... though he does love squishing them together. No guy is gonna complain about C cups that are round and perky, cleavage or no cleavage. Also, whoever made the rib cage comment is right.