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I have really been pursuing this guy and he does not seem to be catching on to my hints. What can I do so he gets the hint?

Abort! Abort! You're headed straight for that Irony-berg! See, not responding to obvious hints is in fact the most often overlooked hint there is. If this guy's "somehow" not picking up the clues you're dropping, it might be time to question whether he's stepping gingerly around your offers of affection like so much dog turd. He may not be into you.

If your hints up to this point have been overly subtle, maybe he legitimately hasn't noticed any. There's one simple way to find out: give him a hint that can't be ignored. His face tattooed on your bicep usually works. If he still ignores you, you've got your answer.

Although more likely, you already know the answer on some level, and are asking me either to confirm or deny your own suspicions. If a guy isn't responding to your hints, there's a pretty simple reason why that most of us will ignore to spare our egos. Don't make that mistake, or you'll waste a lot of time and a lot of signals.

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Some guys can be completely oblivious to signals. He may be thinking "nah, she's not into me... she's nice to everybody... that's just how she is." Have a friend start a rumor, ask around, do something. Your efforts thus far haven't gotten you anywhere, so you need to change your methods.

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Are we in high school now? Just ask the person point blank.

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A man's idea of a hint: "Hey did you wanna go out some time?"

The result? They either go out or they don't.

A woman's idea of a hint: *subtly looking at a guy she likes for five nano-seconds longer than she usually does*

The result? Her getting all pissed off that he didn't pick up on her obvious clues.

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noooo!!!! stop what your doing, before you make matters worsen. if he doesn't pick up on your hints (btw, dudes almost never do) he's going to think your avoiding him! heres how our minds process this: she kinda likes me, but refuses to let me know. she must not want me, maybe i did something wrong...
odds are he noticed the hints, but since your not direct he thinks you trying not to get close to him. please, i once was falsly in depression when this happened to me

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