Sorry, but it sounds more like you "melted" and "folded" for him. He sweet-talked you into sleeping with him behind his girlfriend's back. If being in your presence really caused him to feel that way, why didn't he break up with his girlfriend before sleeping with you? Why does he still need to be with the girlfriend? I hate to say it, but you feel for the number one weapon in a cheating guy's arsenal: sweet talk.
It's the oldest trick in the book -- he's making you feel nostalgic for your relationship while also flattering you. He played the whole "I can't resist you" card, turning the fact that he cheated back on you. It's almost like he made it your fault: "I don't want to cheat, but I just can't resist you." It's a weird underhanded compliment; he's making you feel good about yourself and how you make him feel, while also making you the other woman.
If he genuinely had feelings for you, not just feelings of lust, he would have held off until his relationship had ended. He would have told you that he loves you and wants only you, broken up with the girlfriend and then slept with you. But now he's made it seem like him cheating was somehow your fault, that he wasn't going to do it but then being around you caused him to "fold." That's B.S. -- he was planning on sleeping you from the moment you started hanging out. This whole business of you making him "melt" is just a tactic for sleeping with you. Clearly he's still attracted to you and has feelings, but they're not genuine enough to do more than sweet talk you into bed while he's still in a relationship. So don't let him off the hook so easy. You both messed up. While I'm sure he's attracted to you, it's not like you're some all-powerful siren goddess from Clash of the Titans or something. He could have resisted temptation and waited until he was single to make a move. Now he needs to do the right thing and come clean with the girlfriend. Then do what he should have done earlier and break up with her. She deserves better. You both do. Find a guy who will "melt with you," not one who uses pretty words to get what he wants.
Awesome response.
Total douche…
I know right? She sleeps with a guy she knows has a gf then posts here like it doesn't matter.
Not to be THAT girl.... but if she had slept with a guy (who wasn't an ex) and he had a girlfriend that would be effed up... however, since they have a past, some women still feel they have a claim... or that their relationship from before or feelings that still remain trump any new girlfriend. Yes, it is still wrong, but it's doesn't FEEL as wrong at the time. SO maybe we should cut her some slack... this guy is clearly a douche and knew how to play on her emotions and weaknesses.
awesome response, awesome song!!!
perfect response
Right on target, Nick.
Perfect definition of a player.
Or a d-bag.
Or an a-hole.
All 3 perhaps.
Well shit, I came here to ask if the guy was in Modern English, but once again Mr. Nadel beat me to the pop culture reference. Bravo, Chic Geek. And a spot-on answer.
Excellent answer!
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My Name is JEREMY.I will love to share my
testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never
thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means
so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left
me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i
called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me
on her facebook and she changed her facebook
status from married to Single...when i went to her to
her place of work she told her boss she never want
to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant
get myself anymore,my life was upside down and
everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all
i could do to have her back to all did not work out
until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute
some business have been developing some years
back..I told him my problem and all have passed
through in getting her back and how i lost my
job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe
that in the first place.but he swore he will help me
out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left
me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was
amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will
cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the
next couple of days..then i travel back to US the
following day and i called him when i got home and
he said he's busy casting those spells and he has
bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said
am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that
is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly
12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had
done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and
her sudden behavior was not intentional and she
promised not to do that again.it was like am
dreaming when i heard that from her and when we
ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife
called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he
said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and
when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work
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really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him
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cant give out his number cos he told me he don't
want to be disturbed by many people across the
world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to
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