He's full of shit. That's why he got offended; he knows you are right. Accident, my ass. He was showing off to his friend. I'm sure the photo was accompanied by a comment along these lines:
"Yo, dude, check it out. Yeah, I'm hittin' it. Heh heh."
Not cool. Not cool at all. He's shown you that he can't be trusted. That will be a problem as your relationship continues. (If it continues.) You will find yourself not trusting him in other areas, too -- is he really working late or is there someone else? Does he really think I'm pretty or is he lying? Does he love me or just using me for sex?
Distrust is like foul water that seeps into every aspect of your relationship, rotting it from the inside out. You can stop the source of the leak, but the rot remains until you fix the structure, which, in this case, is your relationship. Trust can be earned back, but not without a lot of time and work. Work that involves lots of conversations with your boyfriend about trust and respect and love. The kind of conversations guys hate.
Is he worth the work? That's what you have to decide. I don't know how long you two have been together, and I suppose that has some relevance here. Still, if it were me, I'd dump him. He broke your trust and then lied about it. Foot, meet ass. Ass, meet door. Buh bye!
Whatever you decide, you might want to think twice about letting yourself be photographed sans clothing in the future. I know it's fun and sexy, but pics and videos like that almost always end up in the wrong hands, or, worse, the internet. In fact, the pics usually go up within a day after breaking up with a guy, so if your bf has any more incriminating footage of you, I'd have him delete it. Pronto. And watch him do it, just to be sure.
After all, he can't be trusted.
Awesome answer, as usual, Cary! I will never understand why anyone would allow naked pics or videos to ever be made of themselves. How bad do the horror stories of where those things turned up have to be for people to finally just say no?
Great advice, through & through! "Foot meets ass," etc. made me laugh.
"Trust is like a broken mirror. You can fix it if it's broken but you can still see the crack in that motherf*cker's reflection."
(Yeah, I just threw down some Gaga. WHUT?)
Emailing your picture to his friend was a slimy, no-class, juvenile thing to do. It was a violation of your trust and of your privacy. Lying about it and not owning up to what he did was a big strike two against him, in my opinion. At the very least, he owes you a huge apology, and he needs to be made to understand why you are upset with him and why what he did was so sleazy. That is, if you decide to keep him around at all, which I wouldn't do if it were me. I agree with Cary. I think you should send him packing.
The accident was letting her finding out that he sent the pic.
Oh you!
Ha! I think your (-10) score is the lowest I've seen yet, Lefty. Well done!
HONEY HONEY HONEY. Whats up taking nude pictures now? Why are women allowing this? Especially if you obviously must have conclude that IT WILL end up in the wrong hands? And its pretty obvious it did.
GIRLS, stop the nude pics. Obviously youre man cannot be trusted. Delete all your pics, and take them back because honey, I can honestly say it just might be floating somewhere in the internet as of now.
Stop taking nude pics if you cant take the responsibility of the consquences. YOure full of shit if you obviously agreed to take the pics and give to a man. Men who like naked pics of their women sound suspicious already! If he wants to see naked, then take off effen clothes. I any women who allows a man to have naked pics of themselves should question their men to why THEY would obviously want a nude photo of you? LOSERS. LOSERs. YOure both full of shit.
That reply hurt my brain. Ouch. First, almost all men would love a picture of their girl naked to look at when they aren't around. While I agree it can be a very stupid move, there's nothing shady about a guy wanting it.
And my fiance has pics of me... it isn't ALWAYS a bad idea, you just have to be damn sure they are trust worthy (we've been together 5 years) and if there is ANY slight, tiny doubt-don't do it. You also have to be prepared that it may end up where other people can see it, even if he doesn't do the distributing. Phones and computers and video cameras DO get stolen.
So I guess, if you would just DIE if those images got out, don't do it.
woow females really need to stop sending there boyfriends nude pics cause you never know where they'll end up, ladies plz have some more common sense, use your damn brain !!!!!!
dont ever trust boys when it comes to nude pics....you know guys are full of shits in thier heads, you'll never know what they were thinking
(or are they thinking?..lol...) they look at women like walking sex organs..lol..thats how men think...get it? so i agreee...use that damn brain of yours.... ;)