Of course he didn't get back to you. He's...married.
Let it go. There is no good here. I'm sure he's very flattered, but there's no way this doesn't end badly.
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Eye contact is not chemistry.
He may find you attractive, as its not immoral for a married person to look at others, but he has not acted on it in a year and, in your own words, you say he " is quiet and distant". This should be more than enough of a hint that this is futile.
This "chemistry" is an imagination that your mind is creating, interpreting these glances as having more meaning than they do.
Your relationship energy is better spent on interacting with available men who will appreciate all that you have to offer!
Happy New Year!
So you know he's MARRIED but you give him your number anyway in hope that he pursues things with you?
Can you seriously explain your thinking here, because I cannot get my head around it...
I know- I was wondering the same thing. She mentions it as though its inconsequential. As soon as she realized he was married that should've been it
Girls like this have major daddy issues and a crazy need for attention. Their way of thinking seems like a huge "WTF?!" to us. When I read it, it made me angry that there are women like this and I even read the question to my bf. I don't think girls like her will ever learn and it saddens me to see that people will stoop so low and disrespect themselves. One of my friends ALWAYS attracts herself to married or unavailable men because they give her attention and a challenge but she never likes the single guys that give her attention because she gets bored easily. It's sad and disgusting and I've tried so hard to get through to her but its pointless. These people really will not change unless their daddy comes back into their lives lol. Good luck train girl. I hope Karma bites you in the ass for being so naive and dumb. A look is a look. Clearly he hasn't pursued you because he doesn't want you and he's actually being a faithful man. Don't ruin their relationship just because you're selfish and go find yourself a single man to make eye contact with. Grrrrr! Ok I'm done
should you avoid?? seriously?? i dont know that you are going to get your cup of sympathy here. are you really that slow that you dont know avoiding a married man is a good choice?or were you looking for validation on your list of bad choices? i'm quite surprised that nobody else has pointed out the obvious poetic irony here, and that is that, this is nothing but a massive trainwreck in every way possible if you choose anything else but avoiding him at all costs.