Have you heard about this site called Craigslist? It’s this amazing place where you can get anything. Like, say, a cheap bike or sold out concert tickets. Or, maybe, I don’t know, a new apartment where you don’t have to live with your skeezy ex-boyfriend who has a girlfriend. You could find a nice new roommate, and get out of your incredibly weird living situation.
Seriously, you should move out. Or he should move out. I don’t really care if your ex still has feelings for you– he’s a creep. He is messing around with his ex in the same house where he sleeps with his girlfriend. IN THE SAME HOUSE. Kissing you on the forehead before going to bed with his girlfriend? That makes me shudder with douche chills. And the whole wrestling thing is weird and clearly a ploy to touch you and get you to fool around with him.
Unless you all have some kind of open relationship, that is just wrong. He’s living the scumbag’s dream, and it’s time for a wake-up call.
Does his current girlfriend know you guys were together? If so, I’m surprised she’s cool with you living with him. And if she doesn’t know that you two were once hangin’ and bangin’, then he is a world-class manipulator of the highest order.
He is using you. If he cared about you at all, he would break up with his girlfriend and just be with you. (Although he would probably ask her if she wants to rent out a room, and mess around with her behind your back.) I feel bad for his girlfriend, and for you. You story has given me the sads.
I’m giving you tough love because you have to get out of this situation immediately. So let me introduce you once again to a man named Craig. He’s a nice fellow, if a bit eccentric, and his list is just what you need. Heed the words of Billy Joel, and move out, before the situation turns even uglier.