Have you heard about this site called Craigslist? It's this amazing place where you can get anything. Like, say, a cheap bike or sold out concert tickets. Or, maybe, I don't know, a new apartment where you don't have to live with your skeezy ex-boyfriend who has a girlfriend. You could find a nice new roommate, and get out of your incredibly weird living situation.
Seriously, you should move out. Or he should move out. I don't really care if your ex still has feelings for you-- he's a creep. He is messing around with his ex in the same house where he sleeps with his girlfriend. IN THE SAME HOUSE. Kissing you on the forehead before going to bed with his girlfriend? That makes me shudder with douche chills. And the whole wrestling thing is weird and clearly a ploy to touch you and get you to fool around with him.
Unless you all have some kind of open relationship, that is just wrong. He's living the scumbag's dream, and it's time for a wake-up call.
Does his current girlfriend know you guys were together? If so, I'm surprised she's cool with you living with him. And if she doesn't know that you two were once hangin' and bangin', then he is a world-class manipulator of the highest order.
He is using you. If he cared about you at all, he would break up with his girlfriend and just be with you. (Although he would probably ask her if she wants to rent out a room, and mess around with her behind your back.) I feel bad for his girlfriend, and for you. You story has given me the sads.
I'm giving you tough love because you have to get out of this situation immediately. So let me introduce you once again to a man named Craig. He's a nice fellow, if a bit eccentric, and his list is just what you need. Heed the words of Billy Joel, and move out, before the situation turns even uglier.
Seriously, you should move out. Or he should move out. I don't really care if your ex still has feelings for you-- he's a creep. He is messing around with his ex in the same house where he sleeps with his girlfriend. IN THE SAME HOUSE. Kissing you on the forehead before going to bed with his girlfriend? That makes me shudder with douche chills. And the whole wrestling thing is weird and clearly a ploy to touch you and get you to fool around with him.
Unless you all have some kind of open relationship, that is just wrong. He's living the scumbag's dream, and it's time for a wake-up call.
Does his current girlfriend know you guys were together? If so, I'm surprised she's cool with you living with him. And if she doesn't know that you two were once hangin' and bangin', then he is a world-class manipulator of the highest order.
He is using you. If he cared about you at all, he would break up with his girlfriend and just be with you. (Although he would probably ask her if she wants to rent out a room, and mess around with her behind your back.) I feel bad for his girlfriend, and for you. You story has given me the sads.
I'm giving you tough love because you have to get out of this situation immediately. So let me introduce you once again to a man named Craig. He's a nice fellow, if a bit eccentric, and his list is just what you need. Heed the words of Billy Joel, and move out, before the situation turns even uglier.
What a smart answer. And what a jackass.
Leave. Immediately.
i agree!get a way out and move on.well that man sucks!there are still plenty of fishes in the ocean sister! great advice geeky nick :)
Why is his current girlfriend still dating him? If I was in her position, I'd be out of there so quickly my feet would burn holes in the carpet. This guy is a creep who should not have a girlfriend at all.
You're his safety net. In case it doesn't work out with his new lady. You deserve so much more than this, but you're the one who has to put an end to it.
So be the strong, smart woman you are and crash on a friend's couch while you're looking for a new place.
You broke up. It's over. And if you're still messing around with this one, then you're not over it. Give yourself time and space to get over it and then get back out there and play :)
Am I in the twilight zone here. Ol girl loves the attention she is getting from her ex. I am sorry if I am about to sound harsh but this is the third "my ex is taking advantage of me" story I am hearing in the past 24 hrs. Girl, get a hold of yourself...get some self respect and leave or ask him to leave. Stop fooling with him, it takes two to tango (unless he has you tied up in a room and he comes in to give you nightly affection, etc). In my opinion, the both of you are at fault. I don't solely blame the ex, I blame you too for sitting there and being a potential jump off to your ex (what in the world!).
What a lovely day for a 1709607! SCK was here
I am going through the same thing, but we have two kids together and another six months on the lease. I'm going crazy here, and I have a hard time keeping my cool. I talk about boundaries, but he had no respect for me before we broke up, and none now. You say leave, but sometimes the situation is inescapable.
I was just in a similiar situation except I was seeing my ex who was living with his other ex girlfriend. I started seeing other guys as quick as I could. Of course, he called and I just never returned his calls. It felt good to be treated well by the new guys. Players never change.