If you're 100% committed to your man, then there's nothing to worry about. You're 100% committed. That means there is no chance that you and sexy bartender will have a couple shots after work one night, and end up parking your tongues in each other's mouths.
You're only a player if you think you can get away with acting on all your impulses. A player is someone who juggles relationships. Who actually thinks "can I get away with this?" A player is defined by his or her actions. It's a very well-defined line -- I think it's all fun and games until someone fingerblasts or gets fingerblasted.
So flirt up a storm. Flirting is living. It's making eye contact and being interested in the people around you. It's having fun and laughing and asking questions. Flirting is play. I would never expect a girlfriend to stop flirting. That's like de-clawing a cat or clipping wings.
I feel like I have to defend flirting. Because it's been my experience that women are threatened by it. They think that flirting is evidence of infidelity. Which is rubbish. Owning a ski mask isn't evidence of a bank robbery.
I believe that you love your husband-to-be. And I believe you are a demonic little flirt. I don't believe, however, that you're being a player smirking, cracking jokes, and making eyes at the bo-hunk booze slinger.
You're only a player if you stop flirting, and start fooling around. The fuse is either lit or not. Don't light it.
i just submitted a question almost like this about my man, but he seeks people out and flirts when hes mad at me. its more complex than that obviously i hope you publish it, i need your advice john!
You're a genius. I'm so happy you think de-flirt-izing is like de-clawing a cat. Puurrfect.
Thanks for answering my question, I'm so excited.
Owning a ski mask isn't evidence of a bank robbery, sure, but I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who would be very hurt if they knew their partner was flirting with other people
Player or not, it's disrespectful.
Really? And what exactly constitutes flirting? Is it having a fun conversation with the opposite sex? Or just any conversation with the opposite sex that did not occur for the express purposes of school, work, shopping or some other necessary life task?
Flirtation is such a loosely defined concept that barring social anxiety you can't help but have it happen sometimes.
I think flirting is harmless but would consider speaking with the spouse about it. See how they feel, they may not even care. I'm guessing you got your fiance because of your awesome flirting skills, so he may already realize it's not that easy to turn off.
Plus if you're engaged you have have a big (hopefully) ole ring on your finger anyways :P
I never cared if my partners flirt or get flirted with, I take it as a compliment. Yay! I've picked a desirable partner who has good social skills!
I agree Chantelle, and you hit the nail right on the head. I AM a big flirt and he DOES realize, (like?) and tolerate it. When a girl flirts with him, I take it as a compliment too. I trust him, so I don't get worried one bit.
We are realistic enough to know that there will always be other attractive people out there, some of which we won't be able to help but smile at, and it's silly to pretend otherwise.
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Good info and straight to the point. I am not sure if this is truly the best place to ask but do you folks have any ideea where to hire some professional writers? Thank you :)