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I met this guy who has made it quite clear that he likes me. However, 1) I don't find him physically attractive AND 2) He only texts me after dark, which is a huge no-no. But, since I haven't had a bf in a long time, can i use him for company?

Good question.

While I'm definitely no advocate of leading people on, and sometimes "innocent" hanging can be doing just that, in this case, I'm guessing he might not solely be interested in your great personality anyway so screw it. Go balls to the wall and kick it like Xscape in 1992.

Man, when was the last time ANYBODY mentioned the group Xscape for any reason?

What?

You say Tiny Cottle has her own reality show? And Kandi Burress is on Real Housewives of Atlanta? Well slap me silly and call me Susan.

Ahem.

As long as you don't give this guy any indication that you intend to do anything physical with him or that you might be interested in a relationship then you should be fine. If at some point he tells you that he really likes you and wants more and you know you don't, then you're using him maliciously and you should let him go. But for now, there's nothing wrong with a few movie dates and dinner dates as long as you don't put your puppies on the dinner table or the on a windshield and say, "see how big my boobs are getting?"

That's just wrong. No unfair inactive sexual innuendo.

So make a short story even longer, as long as there's no implying of more so you can still hang with him or as long as he's not pledging his undying love for you, then sure, you can use him for company.

But you better be going dutch at least a few times or you're just a bad person and may God have mercy on your soul.

Thank you and good night.

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Nick Nadel

"Kick off your shoes and relax your feet, party on down to the XScape beat..."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qU7Q3QobFf4

I haven't heard that one in a while. I had no idea one of the members is on the Real Housewives of Atlanta. They should reunite for a mega-tour with SWV.

Michael Swaim

Wait, why is texting after dark a no-no? Is there a werewolf clause in my carrier contract I missed?

OMGBecky

I think she means *only* texting after dark... which could scream booty call. There's no specific time limit or schedule, but *never, ever* texting in the daytime, ever, just to say 'Hi' or make plans or ask how someone's day was, seems shady :o/

TheMetalHead

My god, this question reeks of evil bitch. But still, I think Panama got it right. Don't lead him on. There's a special place in hell for people who do that ;)

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