hmmm...given the nature of your hookup (didn't anyone ever tell you that BJs with strangers you meet at the fair might not be a good idea?), I'm thinking that there is a very limited future for a relationship. I would run in the other direction at top speed. But who knows, if you keep in contact with him, maybe this quickie can blossom...

lol Girl, are you serious? Honestly i question whether you have actual feelings for him or if you're just infatuated by the whole idea of an over-seas love affair. There's nothing wrong with that, but don't invest any more time/energy/money in someone that a future with is extremely unlikely. I mean, hey, if you get him to pack up his life and move to a place closer to you, go for it! But otherwise I say forget him. He's probably expecting more blow jobs if you "interpret" for him again. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but from what it sounds like you're not exactly on the same page.

Let me ask....did the two of you exchange phone numbers or email addresses? If you did and actually attempt to get to know each other a bit by keeping in touch until he comes back, there may be a small chance that you may have a future. However, the fact that you two shared what you did and then he had to go back to his country, sparks or not, you have a very superficial start. As far as being an interpreter for him, make sure that if you do see him again he doesn't take advantage of you........ There is such a thing as romance and instant attraction, but in this case, I would just be extra careful, as you don't really know him yet.

you just met him, and he SAID he was divorced. I agree with previous commenters, you aren't on the same page at all. orrrr...it's hard to tell from the limited info. I would say this started as a fun fling and I'm guessing he doesn't want more, unless you've heard from him since suggesting as much. have fun if thats what you want, but don't start even thinking about the word FUTURE unless he brings it up first. And, I am the queen of bitter thinking but I DO wonder about the marital status of a man that would whip it out at a fair as if that's the only place he could get it. just me tho. have fun or just walk away but dont put more into this than he does, which, doesn't sound like much. sorry.

Are you qualified to be an interpreter? I mean do you speak both Spanish and English fluently? If you do, I say go for it! I'm not saying there's a future, who knows till after you spend some tine together, but if he is sincerely looking for an interpreter, then this could be quite the experience for you, and I don't think you should turn down the opportunity to broaden you horizons in a couple of different ways. If it lasts, great! If it doesn't, you're only 23, enjoy what Spain has to offer. I don't think you'll regret it. Just try not to get too invested, have fun instead! Because Spaniards are.....yum....

Eek... you met at a fair or you had an "affair"? I'm not quite sure what you're telling us here. This use of the word fair really has me baffled. Did this hook-up happen at a fair? What do you mean by "he said in the fair he stopped for me not for the products"? Did he get divorced after this hook up transpired or was he divorced before. If he was divorced before that would make this a non-issue, you're two consenting adults you can do as you wish.

Yeah... I don't think I can offer a clear answer when I have no idea what you are trying to tell us...

You blew a random dude at a fair who happens to live on another continent. No future. No real date. Not one more second where you cross his mind.

Hmm.. what I get out of that question is that perhaps you work in a booth or shop at a fair. A Spanish guy stopped at the booth because he was captivated by you and not your products. He hit on you and you kissed, groped and you gave him head. He flew off the next day with promises of reconnecting in July and you wonder if you have a future with him.

You have feelings for him and why shouldn't he have feeling for you since you gave him such a hummer-dinger of a souvenir.

If I was a betting woman, I would bet he's a dog. I would also bet that he would love to fly in and have a girl that he could hook-up with. Maybe stay with for free, get more head from and whatever else you'll give up. Maybe make some connections through you and perhaps explore the options of staying long term with your sponsorship.

Not to say that he might not fall for you but the odds are against it.

As an aside, I'm all for oral, but I believe giving a guy head right off the bat puts you in a submissive position, literally and figuratively.

Given the vast amount of time you guys spent together,
and the amount of knowledge you guys have about what the other party can give,
I'd say your future includes:
Him wanting seconds.

You might want to keep in contact so he doesn't forget what you look like and accidently receive a bj from someone else first thing off the plane.

Sorry…, I couldn’t answer this one. I was laughing too much.

I understand your reasons for doing what you did. I mean, we have to believe in love, that there will be love in our lives, in order to continue our days. I think in this case, you wanted to take a chance and see where it goes. I applaud you for taking chances in life. Look, you can either win big (he can be the love of your life) or lose (he could be just using you). I think you posed a question pretty much to ask for the probability of winning/losing. If you don't play, you can't win. And you played. I think for right now, you can't really know what will happen. Just wait and see. But make sure once the guy reveals his real intentions, and if those are not aligned with your wants, you will walk away. Good look to ya.

He needs a different choice for an interpreter..