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I ran into an old friend, and as we were catching up, I noticed that he was continually playing with his wedding ring. Your thoughts?

Yeah, you're reading way too much into what's probably just a subconscious tic. He might not even be aware he's doing it.

There really is such a thing as overanalysis. Don't look too hard at tiny details: if a person is unhappy in their relationship, there will be larger signs.

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He good be a fidgeter, or not used to wearing jewelry yet. Plating with the ring probably has more to do with the physical ring itself rather than what it symbolizes.

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He could be a fidgeter, or unused to wearing jewelry. Playing with the ring probably has more to go with the physical ring itself, rather than what it symbolizes.

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Yeah, I play with my engagement ring allll the time. I also always crack my fingers, play with my hair and tap on desks/counters/surfaces. It has nothing to do with anything, I just always have to be moving.

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I didn't take it as the asker assuming he was unhappy with the relationship. If anything, I took it as her wondering if the man was being extra "showy" to make sure she realized he was married. Just what I got out of it, though.

Either way, I think the answer was right. I almost never wear rings or bracelets for this very reason; I play with them all the time and get on my own nerves.

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I play with my rings and I'm not even married. Can't imagine that going away when my relationship status changes.

I'm not sure what exactly you're worried about. You know he's married. Him taking off the ring and having s*x with you wouldn't make him any less married.

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