It depends on your perspective. A high-five, or knuckle bump even, is a preferable review of your carnal assets than, say, a frown, stuck-out tongue, or nose pinched between forefinger and thumb. I'm positive it's a good, if excellent, sign from the point of view of the guy and his ex-girlfriend, two die hard romantics.
They were probably just stoked they'd scored just premium cooter.
Threesomes are a great idea, like universal health care. But then there's the reality: actually engaging in a threesome, like trying to pass controversial legislation, is a process full of awkward discussions, false starts, and fighting. I might even go so far as to say threesomes are totally overrated. For most guys, giving one woman an orgasm is a difficult enough task.
And let's face the facts that threesomes are very rarely about three people. They should be renamed twosomes plus one. One person is always going to feel left out. That was probably you. You were the "guest star" in the twisted psychosexual soap opera starring this guy you are casually seeing and his ex-girlfriend in name only. I had a threesome once, many years ago. I ended up sitting at one end of the bed, wishing for a plate of nachos as I had become hungry and bored watching two women give each other eyeball bulging orgasm after orgasm. A man has a finite supply of fluids, you know. How was I supposed to keep up? At one point I snidely thought "They should get a room." But they were in a room, and what I needed to do was leave that room. And I did.
Those two sharing a high-five during the threesome is only a bad sign if you're entertaining seeing this dude more. Don't. Keep it permanently casual. For one thing, this ex-girlfriend was exerting her dominance. The high-five was an aside between the two of them that didn't include you; it was her way of establishing ownership of the relationship. Don't get any more involved in the head game they're both playing.
You were a "guest star." And it seems that you performed admirably. Bravo. Think twice before an encore.
"For most guys, giving one woman an orgasm is a difficult enough task". THANK YOU! I'm not a dude, but I would not want to be the man meat in a threesome sandwich. LOTS OF work. And I'd be damned if I showed up to that party and didn't get something out of it!
thank you! three somes are so overrated. no one i know in real life is suave enough to pull off those hollywood scene moves, and in normal sexual situations two people have an adjustment period of awkwardness. throw in a third person and it's a lot of oh.. do i go... and here... please you first. once in a while the third wheel tries to squeeze in a grope or sideways kiss. not exactly hot.
Um def not a myth. My man can make me cum 4-5 times a session without even breaking a sweat. It all has to do with how comfortable you are with yourself and with your partner. That, and some women just orgasm easier than others. I know that I need to have clitoral stimulation as well as penetration to get off so that's how we make it work. There are also different kinds of orgasms...
isnt it just a myth that woman can orgasm several times in a row...
nope....
Hey meiggs -- sounds like you know from experience :) -- good stuff!
When getting intimate with a woman, I always work on giving her the best result I can -- occasionally it doesn't work out -- but most of the time she ends up with multiple orgasms (which for the record, makes me feel great -- plus it's a huge turn on for me when my lover is coming)
oh no way honey... not only can a woman have multiple orgasms, have you ever had mass orgasms? that is pretty amazing, rare for me but wow... one after another after another without a break in between... good stuff!!
Hmmm grayeyeddame ...
Now that sounds like fun!
How do you achieve that?
I am usually able to induce multiple orgasms -- but with a delay in between.
Have you any tips or suggestions I could try out -- in order to give a lucky girl an experience such as this? ... I might call them "chain orgasms" -- what do you think?
I like the term "chain-orgasms!" I wouldn't have a clue as to tell you how to go about getting to this point, as I said it's rare for me but has happened a couple times in my life, and on top of that, every woman is different, so what works for me might not for a million other women.... maybe it's the way I curl my toes at the right time or lift my hips or maybe it's like a magical little rainbow, with a wonderful surprise at the end (believe me, it's better than a pot 'o' gold!), appears in my womb and I get to take the ride of my life!! I don't know but I won't complain about it either...
Lol Scott of course not! I can have about 8 or 9 before I get very very tired from all that tensing lol. And by the way, the easiest way to get a lady to come multiple times lots is to get her to orgasm during foreplay and then have sex with her and stimulate her clit lots.
Just sayin!
I've turned down my threesome opportunities. Why ruin a perfectly good fantasy by subjecting it to reality? That's just asking for disappointment.
yeah i left in the middle of my threesome too, it was obvious i was no longer needed... to bad it was my bed lol
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