Um .... congrats?
Not important that you tell him. Yeah, he'll care, but if the sex is good why worry about it?
Mystery Man
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Um .... congrats?
Not important that you tell him. Yeah, he'll care, but if the sex is good why worry about it?
Copyright 2012 WE: Women's Entertainment LLC. All rights reserved.
This might be a dumb question, but can a guy really tell if it's your first time? I mean physically? Other than the possibility of your lack of experience being evident? I've never slept with someone so I honestly don't know..
Some people may be different but with me there is no way the guy I was with couldn't have known. I told him ahead of time that I was a virgin though. There was blood, and lots of it.
I recently had sex again after a 9 month period of not and even though it was slightly painful it was nothing like the first time.
Everyone falls somewhere on the virgin spectrum as far as pain and bleeding goes and it's not something you can know until you're doing it.
this is another one of those situations that makes me wonder why women feel the need to tell their man everything. no you dont need to tell him. chances are he may have an idea that's the case as has been mentioned in previous comments, but you don't need to go into a long dissertation or analysis on the subject. if he knows, he knows already without you having said a word, and if he hasn't brought it up then why should you. if he doesnt know, then he doesn't know, and why bring it up when you could just continue having great sex with him. which it must be if there are 3 days running in the picture. enjoy the moment so that you have something wonderful to remember when you look back at this time, instead of creating memories that do nothing but capture how agonized and tortured you feel right now. just enjoy it.