Not necessarily. Hell, you said you think you may be. If anything, you're more confused than any particular label. What would make you a lesbian would be a sexual desire in other women (assuming I'm defining this simply enough - I consulted a few online dicitionaries as not to be a dbag).
If you at some point decide that you ARE attracted to women and only women and choose to live your life and relationships with another woman, then, yes, I'd think that would make you a lesbian. Of course, if you realize that you are attracted to both, well, I then you'd be bisexual.
Basically, until you know know what you feel and not just think what you may feel, you are just another person seeking out identity and exploring their feelings. Which I'm sure is fairly normal for most people at some point in life.
By the way, and to be VERY clear, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian, being gay, or beign bisexual. It is what it is. I felt obligated to say that in case anybody somehow managed to decide to take anything that I've said in the most benign manner maliciously. Though I have no idea how that would hapen.
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