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If a guy friend tells you about another girl is he just trying to make you jealous?

Well that depends on who you are to him. For instance, are you all dating, talking, hanging out, or are you just his cool chick friend? Is he really just a guy friend?

If you think you're dating, does he know that? There are horrible horror stories about relationships that occur where one person doesn't even know that they're dating and the other person is picking out drapes. It's happened to me before.

Most of the time, our (guys) main mission is to procure the panties. Now, mentioning other women to a woman whose panties you're trying to procure is a bad idea. And in my experience, women use jealousy as a bargaining chip - men just get jealous. We try not to play women against one another because is reduces the odds of sleeping with either or both of them. And that is just not good for the continuation of the species.

You see, inherently, men believe in life and all the greatness that comes with it. So we aim to NOT reduce our abilities to do that thing that helps create life.

By the way, safe sex, kiddies. Safe sex.

Anyway, my guess is that if you're dude is mentioning another woman in front of you, he thinks you're just his friend.

Of course, if you're dealing with a "player" who believes that the best way to get more booty is by showing women just how much booty he's getting (the age-old women want a man that other women want conundrum), then it is possible that he would throw another chick around in hopes that you'd attempt to stake your territory.

That's totally a pun.

But my guess is if that were the case, you might know that since he's a guy friend and wouldn't be concerned about jealousy so much as getting played.

Either way, this all comes down to knowing the kind of guy you're dealing with AND being on the same page as far as status goes. My guess is that you're dealing with a guy you think you're dating or have expressed interest in. In that case, you need to make sure he knows this.

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MKC

Definitely take a step back and re-define your relationship. Are you really 'just friends'?

Lynnsky

What if the guy just mentions the possibility of another girl who likes him in a different state, but then in the same sentence says "he's not into the long distance thing?" Would he just be trying to get a jealous reaction out of the girl?

Megan

Sane good men don't go out of their way to make women jealous. BFF has that right, it decreases their chances of scoring with both or more if more are involved. I think you are taking it the wrong way or seeing what you want to see which isn't what he's really putting out.

He could think of you as a friend and want your insight. You more than likely like him and he doesn't know that. So no, he's not trying to make you jealous. Unless he's an ass. Assholes are not worth the air they breath.

Panther_chick25

If the man is in a relationship for years with a woman, and he bring up another girl that wants him, and he says he is loyal and only wants his girlfriend and not this other woman, but still states what the other woman said to him. Does this mean he wants his girlfriend to stake her territory for him? or what does this mean?

Jo

If the tables were turned, and i wanted to mention that someone is interested in taking me out for dinner and a movie. Should i mention that to my friend with benefits. We are not in a relationship, but we have sex and go on dates. Is it a good idea to mention someone else is interested? Maybe make him step up to the plate? He's gotten gealous before when i mentioned that i went to a club. Would this make him realize that he shouldn't let me go?

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