Why not ask him?
No, really. I have no clue. Chances are he definitely thinks more of you than not being his girl. If I introduce somebody as my girl, then I am definitely laying claim in a caveman type of way (which I'm guessing you are okay with). But he might just mean it like, "this is my girl" as in my homey who happens to be a girl.
It all depends on where he did and how he did it. And since you were there, you should take some of those context clues, then ask him and attempt to understand by asking him lots of questions based on his answer if its anything other than "no." I'm sure you don't want to rock the boat, which is why you're asking me and not him, but the truth is you're going to have to have that convo about expectations at some point. Why not now? It's definitely easier if the man just does certain things without prodding - as long as you're okay with it. I know.
But we don't work like that. So you have to do your part to figure things out to get what you want.
You want to know something, bring it up and then have the necessary conversation about where you are if he says "no." If he says yes, then you have a similar convo, just more pleasant.
So holler at him.
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